What does a guy do when he receives hate mail from his love child?

Question

I have a love child that I am beginning to receive hate mail from. Do I still try to pursue a more loving relationship with her or change my address?

Answer 1

She is your daughter whom you didn't and don't really want. You are the only father she will ever have. Sort of makes you puke, doesn't it? You either tell her the truth or grow up. The 'hateful' things she says about you are true. Deal with it.  8~)

Answer 2

i would suggest responding to the mail - but be careful how you choose to word your letter. let her know that you do love her, and that you understand why, and that she is, angry.

it's tough growing up and not understanding everything. when you're a child, you tend to become angry with what you don't understand. they may be yearning for affection, and are showing it in a strange way.

if your attempt of being understanding and calm doesn't work, then i would suggest waiting a while before trying again. but don't abandon her, i truly believe it's a cry for help and love. i am 24 now, and never knew my father. when i was 12, i felt really upset at him, but in reality, i was only upset because i felt like he didn't care.

best of luck to you :)

Answer 3

what is a love child?  Why she hates you?

Answer 4

Don't change your address. All that will do is verify everything that she i thinking and feeling right now. She's hurt and and angry, and if you've been out of her life, then she has every reason to be. Pursue a relationship with her, because deep down, even though she's showing it in a negative manner right now, she is trying to form ANY kind of relationship. (Sort of like bad attention is better then no attention at all) Be consistant in telling her that you love her and want very much to have her in your life.

Answer 5

I woldnt change your address, unless you completely dont care about her, that will only make her feel more angry and unloved. She is probably angry because, I am assuming, you have never had a realtionship with her.How old is she? Depending on her age, try and explain things to her and tell her your sorry for not being in her life. THis would be a very tough situation to be in. I hope it all works out for you.

Answer 6

what you mean about love child?  

Answer 7

Well you should have been there for her and supported her .You also must have stayed away long enough for her to have learned to walk talk and learn to write. A father is very important to a developing you girl. If I were you I would keep trying to form a relationship with her.Giving her your last name would be a big step in the right direction.If she doesn't want that she knows you are serious about this.Do not forget YOU OWE HER SUPPORT! Monetarily ,physically and emotionally.

Answer 8

WELL I THINK I WOULD WRITE HER ONE LAST LETTER TO LET HER NO HOW YOU REALLY FEEL AND LET HER NO IF SHE WRITES YOU ANYMORE HATE MAIL THAT YOU WILL CHANGE YOUR ADDRESS N SHE WILL NEVER HERE FROM YOU AGAIN,,AND YOU NO HER MOM IS TELLING HER A LOT OF LIES ABOUT U SO SHE WILL HATE YOU...PEACE

Answer 9

sounds like something deeper is going on, why is the child so angry at you? If you can try speaking with her mother,