What does a guy mean when he says he isnt looking for a relantionship?

Question

i like this guy a lot but when my sister talked to him he told her he wasnt looking for a relationship what did he mean by saying that??also what do you think i should do try a liitle harder to get him or leave him and look for someone else or what????i need a little help here please

Answer 1

It means he efinitely wanna fu.. you

Answer 2

In a non-sugar coated way, this means that he's 'just not that into you'.

Definitely do not try harder to get him-if a guy is really into you and wants you he will chase you..it's just how it should be.

So if he's saying he doesn't want a girlfriend then it's the truth and guys rarely mean something else when they say this. Go find someone who can't wait to tell everyone you're his girlfriend. :)

Answer 3

Honestly, it means he isn't interested in a relationship with you.  Back off, live your own life and look elsewhere.

Answer 4

No, no, no! The only thing he means is he doesnt want any strings attached, for lack of better words. Or to put it nicely, he doesnt want to be crowded by one certain woman. That's all.  

Answer 5

Why so some women refuse to believe what a guy says?  Is it because it's not what they WANT to hear?  If a guy says he isn't looking for a relationship then he probably isn't looking for a relationship and "trying a little harder" will just make you a pest.

Answer 6

he just wants s*x

Answer 7

He wants the physical side only: s*x, dry s*x, touching, whatever. Nothing that is emotionally binding in essence.

Answer 8

he meant he ain't interested in a relationship at the moment he isn't looking 4 anybody right know not at the moment he is not looking for a g/f at the moment.

Answer 9

Exactly what he says!  You need to back off, i think he told your sister hoping she would tell you!!!!

Answer 10

think he really want to enjoy without being linked forever with u. Maybe else he told so to your sister hoping she tells u. In this way it will be u that leave him and he has not the duty to do so with u, as i think he would end your story. This is the easiest way a guy can find to end a relationship. Convince his partner to leave him, so that responsibility of the end is all of the partner.