What does a judge say for wedding vows in a civil wedding ceremony?

Question

does someone out there know I am getting married in two days

Answer 1

A judge will say pretty much whatever you want him/her to say.  All that really has to be done is signatures on the marriage certificate--there's nothing that legally has to be said.  

Congrats on your upcoming wedding!

Answer 2

IT depends on the judge, the state, etc. But here is the usual minimum formula for a legal wedding. Some states require rings (like NYC), even if plastic. All require witnesses.  

1. The Statement - of the proper names of the persons who have come to be married, so we know we have the right people. ("We are gathered here for the wedding of [name] and [name]")

2. The Intention - "Are you, [name] here of your own free will, and do you intend to marry [name]. This is the "I do" that you answer individually, in front of witnesses, either 2, or 200 of them.

In the UK and a few other countries, you then say "Is there anyone present who has any reason why this couple may not lawfully be joined?" In most US States, this question is answered when you fill out your license, indicating the disposition of any prior marriages, divorces, etc. your age, and whether you are too closely related to be married. This means you do not have to repeat this question at a wedding ceremony.

3. The vow: "I [name] take you [name] to be my lawfully wedded husband/wife". You are speaking to your intended spouse, not to the minister, and not to the witnesses, as in step 2. You have turned to face each other, and this is your promise to become each other's legal partner.You may say this in your own words, and there are many variants.

4. The Signing: The officiant and the witness/es sign the license and date it (sometimes to the second, in a state where you have a waiting period). The Bride and Groom may sign as well, depending upon the license. They have already signed when they applied for the license.

5. The declaration: "In front of these witnesses, this couple has declared their intention to join their lives in marriage..and we now accept them as husband and wife".

Optional:  Kiss, Presentation as a new couple, etc.

The words can vary, of course -  But the PURPOSE of each step is the same - establishing WHO you are; if you are here of your own free will and it is your INTENTION to be married; your PROMISE to the other person to be their spouse; the legal SIGNING of the license, and the DECLARATION by the officiant that we have witnessed this legal contract.

Make sure your ceremony has these basic, minimal parts, and that your officiant is properly licensed, and that they file the license on time with the state issuing agency.

Below is a link to a short legal wedding service (civil).

Answer 3

Basically the same generic stuff

We are agthered here today.....

Marriage is not to be taken lightly

Do you ____ take ___ to have to hold, for richer and for poorer, in sickness and in health..... till death do you part...

Repeat after me; with this ring I thee wed....

I now pronounce you husband and wife....

My ceremony was quite nice, and we chose to exchange rings.... I think they have a bit different ceremony when rings aren't exchanged.....

Congrats, and good luck!