What does a woman mean by this?

Question

When a woman says she wants to take it one day at a time what does she means by that.

Answer 1

she wants to take it slower..cuz ur going way to fast and she just wants to get to know u first

Answer 2

She wants to take things slowly, she may not be ready for something serious

Answer 3

It sounds to me that she wants to try to see if the marriage is going to work, but that she is taking it one day at a time and she hasn't made up her mind yet as to whether she wants to stay or go.  Sometimes when we reach the end of our rope, we do one day at a time and see how it goes.  I could mean seeing if she can keep it called off or whether you two can work it out.

I would suggest that you get marital counselling and discuss what that means and what problem there are in your marriage and the good things and whether you can work out things.  It sounds to me that you need a trained neutral person who can help you work out some issues.  And you have to decide if you love her enough to give her the time or to go one day at a time.  It is best to get counseling to try to help you both work through this and to see if you can mend the relationship.

Good luck to you both.

Answer 4

It means shes unsure of her feelings for you and wants to take her time to find out if she likes you enough to be in a relationship or not.

Answer 5

It means she wants to take things slow and see what happens.

Answer 6

It means she is questioning the relationship. Honestly, go to couple counseling - she has unresolved issues with this relationship. Find out why she told you she cheated and what made her do it in the first place. Somethings going on.  

Answer 7

She's not ready for any future details and uncertain what she might do yet.

Answer 8

It means that she's in a confusing place right now where she probably feels guilty about having the affair but she doesn't want to just go back to the same old same old in her marriage either.  She was probably very unhappy in the marriage for a while before having the affair and now sees this as an opportunity to move forward improving the marriage.  She doesn't want to just bury her head in the sand & ignore any problems that existed prior to the affair.  She just wants to go slowly & make sure you all do the work to improve the marriage.

Answer 9

It means there's probably not much chance of a future.

Answer 10

She wants to se how things go from day to day.  Today she may be interested, tomorrow she may not be.  She really doesn't care one way or another.

Answer 11

Sounds like your wife is really immature and doesn't realize it is better to stay with you and make your marriage work. If she cheated on you, shouldn't she be a little more considerate of your feelings too? Not that her feelings should be completely ignored, but to be honest, sounds a little spoiled.  

Answer 12

when a women says take it one day at a time she means, lets just see what happeneds

Answer 13

Well first off she may still be seeing him, because if you both have been together that long how is it possible to take it one day at a time, It means she is in love with who ever she "was" cheating with. And honey do yourself a favor don't allow yourself to be with anyone who cheats on you, you have to learn how to value yourself for someone to know your worth. It doesn't matter how long you have been with the person. Your setting yourself up for failure, If she did it once and you found out it will always be in the back of your mind wondering if she will do it again. And no one want to live life with someone that broke the trust. Wish you lots of luck.

Answer 14

It means she wants to take it slow because she's probably been burned in a past relationship or two.

Answer 15

she's not sure of the relationship, and doesn't want to make any long term plans yet.

Answer 16

SHES NOT READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP RIGHT NOW ,PROBLY WANTS TO DATE OTHER PPL OR HAS JUST COME OUT OF ONE.

Answer 17

It means she wants to take it really slow instead of too much at once.