What does have feelings for me mean?

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What does have feelings for me mean?

Hi, I met this girl she has a boyfriend for 5 year relationship and we speak quite a lot daily for about the past month, she told me she has feelings for me, what does have feelings for me mean, im 24 years old, please help

Id like to also add that she says i remind her of her current boyfriend, please help me because i dont know what to do, she has been goin out with her boyfriend for 5 years and im wondering what she means by she has feelings for me

She also said few times if her boyfriend treats her bad she will consider me, am i being used guys?

Answer 1

Being a girl myself, I hate to admit it, but yeah it sounds like she is using you. Having feelings for you means she has romantic feelings towards you. But it sounds like she likes the attention you are giving her and doesn't want it to stop. She is giving you hope so you stick around. You should try to tell her that if she really has feelings for you then she should leave her boyfriend and be with you instead. Its that easy.

Answer 2

She means basically that you are the backup if something should ever go wrong with her current boyfriend and they breakup then she will try to find you for comfort BUT that doesn't mean that she will stay with you because if you remind her of her current boyfriend and they break up and she ends up with you then she will always see you as him and not as you.  If this even makes any sense.

Answer 3

Lol no i dont think you are being used. I would just state that your only intention is friendship with her. She has a boyfriend,maybe she is getting a bit bored with him etc so she is trying to find another interest...you. I would not get involved.

Answer 4

Sounds like she maybe stringing you a long. Keeping you on the side just in case! There is not a thing wrong w/ being friends, just try to keep at that and continue to live your life. Good luck.

Answer 5

I hate to say it but she want the classic spare tire.

If her life has a blow out you will be there to get her to the next station. The rebound guy.

Brandon Lee said it best when asked if he wanted to be compared to his father Bruce Lee "imitation pales by comparison."

I am sure she likes you and is even attracted to you. But you can't compete against time. Five years to be exact.

The boyfriend would just use time and thought to reel her back in. She obviously care for him still and likes in you what she sees in him. That is a rough road to follow.

Find a girl who looks at you for you. Not someone who is confused and will add chaos to your life.

It may take time but keep looking.

Hope this helps.

Answer 6

Wow this kind of upsets me because it seems like she may consider you as the rebound. Stay away. Think about it this way if you do go out with her. Everyday you will always remind her of her ex. You can do better =)