What does he really want to know?

Question

ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we are really happy together...but one of my guy friends, who i was seeing at one point, gets back in contact with me constantly asking me how things are with my boyfriend and when i say "everything is fine" he doesn't talk to me for another few months and then asks the same question...what does this mean? Is there a hidden meaning? Or am i over thinking it?

Answer 1

Who knows what his intentions are but him? With the limited information you have given, it would seem reasonable to think he is just making conversation. I ask my friends how things are going with their partners but that's about the extent of it. Maybe he still has some feelings for you and is looking for something, but the only way to know is to ask him and my thoughts are that conversation wouldn't go so well. I would just drop it. If he is doing or saying anything that makes you uncomfortable just stop talking to him.

Answer 2

He is waiting for you to break up with him so he can have a chance with you. He wants you bad but you and your boyfriend are happy together so please don't make a wrong move. 1 step in the wrong direction and it's over with your boyfriend. Love is rare. Hold on to it.

Answer 3

He's trying tosee if he can get back in there with you! But obviously doesn't want to much your head up! x*x

Answer 4

Dont talk to ur ex if all he is bothered about is if u are still with ur boyfriend.

bet he didnt ask how u was did he?