What does healthy love feel like, or at least the beginning of it?

Question

I've been seeing this guy and I think I am falling in love with him...not the usual "love" that I thought I felt before where I was sickly obsessed with a person, but I think I'm finally getting the concept of what I used to hear people describe as love vs. lust in the sense that love takes time to develop whereas lust can be immediate, like an attraction. Although I did say I "think" I'm falling in love because I'm actually not quite sure what real love really is all about so I am interested in hearing what other people's experiences have been.

Answer 1

everytime your with the person, there is no other

place you would rather be. and even tho u see

this person often, you still get really excited

to meet with them.  

Answer 2

when you love someone, it's easy to love them.  yes, relationships take a lot of work, but you strive to make each other happy without any effort.  Trust is a big one as well.  if you can't rust them, you don't love them.  And if they're shaddy, they don't love you.

Answer 3

s*x

Answer 4

do you miss him a lot when you just say good-bye, do you call him and think he is in trouble when he is fare away, and the most important when you have another guy in your house do you feel aukward? if your answeres are yes, yes, no then your inlove!