What does her behavior mean?

Question

When I engage in the conversation first she's usually very cold...standoffish. But when she engages in the conversation first she's very warm..telling me she misses me, she loves me etc.

Answer 1

ummm she sounds normal, I guess

Answer 2

Maybe she doesn't want to seem to vulnerable.

Answer 3

You don´t give much detail but I think it means she wants to control the situation. If she´s in the mood, let´s talk, let´s be cool...if she´s not, she doesn´t want to talk, doesn´t feel like being cool.

Talk to her about this.

Answer 4

Playing hard to get so you will ask questions like this.

Answer 5

She is slow to warm up?  

Answer 6

She maybe shy. My first gf was exactly like that. Talking to her was like pulling teeth. Eventually she will get use to you and start warming up when you initiate conversation