What does it mean by having emotional baggages?

Question

A guy friend told me he doesnt want to have casual s*x because he said there will be emotional baggages. I am not quite sure what he means by that? WHo will get the baggages? me or him?

Answer 1

I'm guessing he will have emotional baggage.  I have a feeling he wants more than just casual s*x with you, he wants a very intimate time with you, but you just want s*x.  He feels that if he gets attached to you emotionally while having s*x, then it's going to become baggage for him.

Answer 2

Both,  What he's telling you is that he doesn't have any deep emotional feelings for you and he doesn't want to have any and he doesn't want you to have any for him either.  Basically, he's not interested in a romantic relationship with you.  He's afraid that casual s*x would ruin your friendship because s*x would cause awkward feelings or emotions that would linger after the s*x.

Answer 3

more than likely u hun most women find it hard 2 have no strings s*x.

Answer 4

He's afraid one of you will want more. He obviously doesn't see this in his future.

Answer 5

It means feelings will come involve and it won't be casual s*x anymore. And maybe you or him might want more than s*x you would want a relationship and he doesn't want that.

Answer 6

it means that it's all getting too much for him, he just wants to take it slow and see what happens, he's having too many emotions and just needs some time to himself or Else it'll all get too much for him emotionally

Answer 7

He could be saying a lot of things. Here's some examples of what that could mean:

"I don't want to ruin the friendship. Having casual s*x could confuse us and change how we feel about and treat each other. I respect you too much to treat you like a piece of meat."

"I don't want to have casual s*x with you because I might get attached and want a more meaningful relationship from you afterwards."

"You might get attached to me. I don't want to be tricked into a relationship and don't want to look like a jerk when I break your heart."

Answer 8

both of yall..

emotional baggage is like.. perhapes u like him more than a friend after s*x.. n he doesnt... ull get all emotional and all if he starts seein someone

and then it will affect friendship etc etc

just an example mind u

Answer 9

Emotional baggage is something that you bring along though the relationship is over (guilt, hurt, carried-on feeling). Maybe for the two of you, unlikely for him, as at this stage (casual friend), he has not put a serious thought of you, like as if putting his shoes on your situation.  

Answer 10

He probably falls in love easily, gets attached, and is needy and clingy. Listen to him. Guys like him are hard to get rid of. They just keep hanging on.