What does it mean...................?

Question

if someone tells you your fate has decide

Answer 1

its destiny

Answer 2

Decided what? Your life is decided by the whim of the hour.

Answer 3

It means that external factors beyond your control such as God or Mother Nature have decided something in your life, rather than you by your own volition.

Eg. If I'm walking on the sidewalk and a car swerves and hits me, I think it's fair to say fate decided that as just a mystery of the cosmos. For, most people don't decide to get hit by cars, and one'd probably know if a friend of their was the sort that'd want to, right?