What does it mean when a friend tells you, you mean alot to them but treats you like dirt?

Question

my friend steven. first off we are just friends i dont want nothing more. i never even thought about that with him. but my problem is is that.

i dont know whats wrong with me. he has caused me so much pain. he has made my life h**l. i mean i couldn't even stand to myself. he would just talk c**p about me. to down to me. latley we have been alot better (latley as in we havent had an issue like this in a year and a half)

i can not let him into my life. i just cant i cant trust him. h**l, i shouldnt trust him. i shouldnt even talk to him. it bugs me how he tells me that im his bestfriend and how he can tell me everything and he cant talk to people the way he talks to me. and sometimes he'll write me little messages on how much i mean to him

but. i cant help but feel all the hate in my heart that burns for him. but at the same times as he tells me i mean all this to him he treats me like im c**p. he never calls me i call him and he acts distant. but then sometimes he'll call and just talk for ever. then if i say i have to go he'll get mad or jealous. my problem is is that he treats me like c**p.

i have hated myself and done stuff to myself because he makes me feel lower than dirt. and i know i shouldnt talk to someone like this but i cant tear myself away from him. i just cant. why?

Answer 1

If his actions do not match his words then you can be sure that he is a lier and that he does not care about you