What does it mean when a guy you just met tells you he does not want a relationship?

Question

but the same night wants to have s*x/ then he calls me the same night just to tell me good night! and havent heard from him since? iam confused? if he didnt want a relationship why bother to call to say good night?

Answer 1

it means he does not want a relationship

Answer 2

When someone tells you they do not want a relationship, LISTEN!  He means it.  People rarely say they don't want a relationship when they really do - people who do want a relationship will usually say so.  Sounds like he wanted to have s*x, have a good time and nothing more.  Calling to say good night was nice but doesn't a relationship make. Don't hang on expecting something more.

Answer 3

Srsly?

alright, young one... here it is:

He wants s*x...not a relationship.

If he comes around for a booty call and you give it up....don't cry when your heart gets broke.

Answer 4

I think he just trying to be nice so that he can get more our of you. obviosly if he acts like a jerk, he knows he won't deserve anything from you. I suggest play with his head (I don't ean that in a sexual way)

Answer 5

He's a player.  Don't waste your time getting involved in that.

Answer 6

he was just being nice that night by doing so, but dont do it again..he doesnt want to be with..he wants to have his cake n eat it too..if u have any self respect for urself than dont continue to sleep with someone that doesnt respect u..i personally think that theres nothing wrong with a booty call but it doesnt seem like thats wat u want n since feelings seem to be involved dont do it  

Answer 7

He just wanted s*x

Answer 8

To be polite.  Simple as that.

Answer 9

Honey, all he wanted was the booty.  That's why he called to feel you out.  And when you didn't put out, he moved on.  He sounds like a first class jerk. And when a guy tells you he doesn't want a relationship, BELIEVE him.  His actions matched his words perfectly. He did you a HUGE favor!

Answer 10

probably cause he wants more s*x.

Answer 11

yeah wat a jerk! that's soo messed up idk it simply means he's a dirtbag and was only trying to use u =[  

Answer 12

Sorry to say you have been had next time DON"T give it up so easy.

Answer 13

He wants s*x with you; no doubt about that.