What does it mean when a "shy guy" doesn't try as hard and is "too comfortable"?

Question

He's a shy guy and we've been spending time this whole summer. In the beginning (when he thought he was losing my attention), he really worked for it... almost seemed desperate. Everything's good now though i notice he doesn't try to hard anymore. In the beg, we would see each other maybe 2-3/wk and now once a week (spend the whole afternoon with him watching guy stuff)

- he invites me over to his house to hang out (he's never brought a girl home or exposed a girl to his family)

- sleep on my side when we cuddle

- when making plans, it's not "all him". It has to be almost a "mutual" thing where it's like i have to guide him and try not to ask

- we don't even make plans to when we see each other next. He does his thing, I do mine and he'll spontaneously just ask me to hang out

- we don't talk or text everyday

- i'll run errands w. him sometimes

- if there's miscommunication, he doesn't txt/call, waits until the next time i see him to clarify

- if he's really tired, he'll pass out and sleep while i'm there

- he'll coyly ask for a back massage and he'll lie on his belly and his a$$ crack will be showing

- the stuff he says too: he sees an overweight guy and says, "please make sure i don't ever get that big..." or "i wonder if our parents will get along..." or "oh man that neighbor is soo annoying..."

is he getting more comfortable, just being a friendly friend, or losing interest?

Answer 1

it means he wants u to make the first move,or during the summer he found out ur creepy,but i think its the first one;)

Answer 2

wow.

so much to read

im kinda tired, so what i read

yes, hes way too comfortable and loosing interest.

if you still want him, need to "act" like your busy.

just so he doesn't always depend on you and he knows that you have a life that doesn't revolve around him-and it'll hit him that he asks for too much form you without offering anything. get it wink wink**