What does it mean when he tells i'm falling for you...?

Question

This guy and I are 23 years old. We've had our share of painful relationships in the past, but this time, we feel like it's so different. It's incredible. We've been only talking to each other for 2 weeks and we already have a strong connection. I know 2 weeks is short, but the connection we have cannot be explained. It feels like we've known each other for ever. We talk to each other every single day for hours and hours especially b/c it's long distance. We know long distance relationships doesnt work out and there will be a lot of issues involved, but we are aware of this yet we are so willing to try. Yesterday he tells me he's crazy about me, and asks me if i think it's weird since it's been only a short period of time. He tells me he's falling for me and feels like fate brought us together b/c God always has a reason. He says he feels like we're meant to be etc..and hopes I feel the same way and if I don't I should tell him. He says he's going to try to overcome this long distance and will show it through actions. What does it clearly mean if he says he's falling for me? I know it's not love yet, but what is it...?

Answer 1

It means that he feels a strong connection and bond with you and is developing feelings for you.  Give this time since you are in the first blush of getting to know a person where everything is wonderful.  If it is meant to be then you will be together.

Answer 2

It means he's falling in love w/ you.

Answer 3

This happened to me too...  We're into 4 wks & we are both head over heels...  We are 40.  When I read what you wrote I had to respond.  It happens!  I call it "deep infactuation". The more you 2 talk, the deeper this will become & grow.  We live over 800 miles away from each other.  I have visited him.  And we are making plans for him to move to me.

My question to you is, Why Not?  Let it flow, Let it happen!  Be happy & do not question it!

Answer 4

Clicking on your icon, I see that you have asked this question four times in the last hour.  If you have not liked the answers you have already received, you're not likely to find any you like by asking it repeatedly.  At least do us the favor of posting it where it belongs next time, in Singles & Dating.

Answer 5

Soo, are either of you married?  If not, wrong section.

Answer 6

One of my friends went through this and they are now married.  Schedule some visits and spend some time with each other.  They visited each other over the course of a year.  The first visit was less than a week.  He came out to visit her over a long weekend.  Then, she went out for a few weeks in the summer (we are teachers so she had the flexibility to do that)  She eventually moved and lived with him for 3 years before they became engaged.  They key is to take it slow and get to know each other.  It's hard to do that when you live apart.  It was very important that she lived with him first in order to develop a relationship before getting married.  

Answer 7

Maybe god does have a plan for the 2 of you. Who knows? I told my girlfriend that I fell for her as well. I love her very much. I meant it. He seems as if he's intent on being with you. I would simply take it for what it means. He's falling for you!