What does it mean when my boyfriend and I had bad s*x?

Question

We've always had amazing, mind-blowing s*x several times a week, but we hadn't really been able to sleep together much the past couple weeks. We've been getting along really well, but have both been stressed out about money. Finally, last night we were together, but for some reason it was weird and it took him forever to give me an o****m. Is it just that we're out of practice?

Answer 1

You guys are both just so stressed about the money, and lack of the time for each other that its not something you guys really think about anymore. The same thing is happening to me and my girlfriend. You guys just need to set some time together and do a lot of foreplay. Just a nice relaxing day for you two where you don't have much to worry about. Just each other.

Answer 2

It just means you are stressed out. Be thankful you can climax  ..most never do and teens don't even know what it's like:)

Maybe you 2 need to stay away from the bedroom for a bit  or maybe he was not in the mood.

Answer 3

You answered your own question.

If you have been stressed about money lately I cant imagine s*x was the first thing on your mind.

You shouldn't have s*x if you are not feeling well within yourselves. It will just make the problem worse. Hence why you are writing here.

First you only had problem financially.

Now look what has happened

Answer 4

I think that you two weren't into it like you usually were. And it could probably be because you two were stressed. and even after a couple of weeks, a lot of things can change, even your love life. I think you two should try to put that spark back into your s*x life. Pressure, worries, and stress can all play a more important role in your life than you think. So I would say don't worry. Just try something new or find more things exciting about it. You might be surprised.

Answer 5

not at all, happiness is linked to s*x and horniness through the brain. if your stressed, your unhappy and if your unhappy you cant get aroused, its all biology. Just agree to leave s*x for a while but tease each other every now and again. without the pressure of s*x the romance will come back making you happy and therefore able t and wanting get aroused.