What does it mean when people make you angry because you dont get the responses or answers you want ?

Question

theres times in the past on here ive thought , jesus if i get that reply from that guy again im gonna dedicate my life to finding busting his shht up.

i know its wrong but how do i handle these emotions ?

Answer 1

it means that you're perfectly normal..

Answer 2

It means you're taking the internet (or life, if you will) too seriously.

Answer 3

you dwell on things too much and you consider other peoples opinions too much, maybe ur gullible and you take what they say to be true..and u fall for the wrong type of guy, if a guy breaks ur heart dont let him break you, make him think u dont care n then he will care more that u dont care... get what i mean..?

If anyone upsets u just act as if they haven't then they will wonder why!! lol.. winds them up something rotten cuz they expect a reaction from you, and u dont give them one!!

Answer 4

Toughest lesson to learn is that folks are not going to see things from your perspective and you may not see things's from their prospective either. Pick up a copy of Steven Covey  7 Habits book and look at the picture inside,

do you see an old woman or young lady with a necklace? When you have been coached on taking one viewpoint before looking at the pix, it will be difficult to see the other image of that pix. And vice versa.

People come from different backgrounds and experiences, so I am not sure there is always one right answer. Just a matter of perspective.  

Answer 5

No-one can MAKE you angry - that is a deliberate reaction from you.

When anyone says anything to you, before you react, their words have no power - it is only your reaction that gives it power - is this not true?

You need to change the way you look at things.

If someone said they don't like you, you could instantly react and get mad at them, OR you could think to yourself "thank you my friend for giving me the opportunity to show me that I need to love myself more, so that others can love me"

peacefromken

Answer 6

Remember questions and answers are like noses we all have one. If you don't like what you hear delete it and move on.

Answer 7

you know when your going over the edge - when you haven't even noticed you've already fallen off.

you actually know the answer your looking for, but want people to understand or punish them until they don't.  it means your just angry and you can't punish youself so you have to punish others (so they don't even need to have done anything wrong - they just have to be there to take the punishment).  its a sort of fear of death - so caused by trama early on in life.  u often see it happening at weddings and deaths.

find the anger, problem goes away.