What does it mean when she teases me?

Question

i'm not attractive, and the way she's talked about the behavior of men she may be a L*****n but this female at work has me confused, i've been attracted to her since the first time she spoke to me (6 months ago) but have always avoided her because some comments she made early-on seemed indirectly aimed at me from her vocal inflection and she'd often give me dirty looks like she was mad at me for something, she was more quiet and i acted more outgoing in the beginning. now i'm quiet and i've left her alone and have stayed out of her way but she seems to be going out of her way to be close to me, but she makes a joke of it so it seems like she's picking on me. often it's very difficult not to get a public erection when she's doing all this because she's so very attractive and i haven't had s*x in years, i can't have an erection at work, it would get me embarassed and fired. would this indicate she'd be having some problems she's taking out on me? she only does this in front coworkers.

Answer 1

She sounds like an attention junkie to me. She also knows that you are attracted to her and most likely will let her get away with anything she decides to dish out. She uses your weakness for her as a tool to attract attention to herself, which is pretty cruel. Now, to stop her little mind games all you have to do is ignore her completely. Simply picture her as a piece of furniture in your office. She will get the message eventually.

Answer 2

Are you serious, or just BSing?

If you're for real then:

1 get some looser fitting pants.

2 get her outside of the work place and put your cards on the table. Doing at work might seem inappropriate. Tell her how you feel, and find out how she feels. Happy hunting

Answer 3

She's just having a laugh at your expense. She's one of the cruel, heartless people who enjoy doing things like that. Just tell her to go away - beginning with the letters F and O. Know what I mean?

Answer 4

She is having her fun. The trollop.

Answer 5

one day you might be lucky enough to get herpies from that girl but...  i wouldnt try too hard..   she prolly acts like that with aLot of guys,    theres no such thing as not attractive the elephant man had a girl-friend.