What does it mean when someone says someone is "obviously g*y?"?

Question

I've heard people refer to others as "obviously g*y"...what does that mean? If they're not decked out in rainbows, how is someone obviously g*y? For example, I saw some interview on t.v. about Kate Moennig and my mom said, "Oh, she's so obviously g*y."

Can anyone clarify on that for me? Even if a girl dressed exactly like a guy, I wouldn't automatically assume she was g*y. Yeah, it would cross my mind, but it wouldn't mean anything unless she said so...

Answer 1

Playground talk and they need to grow up.

Answer 2

it means they obviosuly got no clue wat theyre talkin abt and theyre basing a person's sexual orientation based on their apprearance ...which is a stupid way to identity sexual orientation.

i dont believe in gaydar either.

Answer 3

you are so ahead of the curve......the g*y and L*****n community LOVES stereotypes......straight people are doing there own thing and are pretty wrapped up in each other (which is fine...because I really don't care much....)

With Kate Moennig...you have to realize her market of lesbians...she is an actress and can throw the vibe at the drop of hat.

When I want a woman to know I'm g*y.......I will give her the look......its a vibe...a combination of look/intensity/body language.....straight or g*y.  

Answer 4

i dont really think a straight person can know someone is 'obviously g*y'. simply because theyre not g*y, so they dont know the signals, vibes, and such other g**s send off, they cant understand them really. i know when people see a guy waiter that has a sweet voice and, calls you sweetie, and has his own walk, they say he is 'obviously g*y' but really thats just steriotypes, i mean maybe that how they are.

i cant explain it all that well through typing, im better speaking, but thats my way of putting it.

Answer 5

Idk. Everyone says that about Kate Moennig. I have plenty of straight friends that don't dress up all girly-girl. Its just stereotypes

Answer 6

first-love your avatar pic i <3 Tegan (at least I think thats Tegan lol.)

basicly its just a steriotypocal bullshit and it doesnt help that Kate plays a lot of roles where she is a L*****n..and she's a believable actress :)

also some people have over-active gaydar or...wishfull thinking lol