What does it mean when you've been dating the same guy for a year and?

Question

It Goes from s*x everyday to barely once a week...

We live together.

I'm in shape.

I try to set the mood.

I cook dinner.

I do everything,

I've read books..

I don't know what to do...

I feel ugly but alot of guys like me.

I mean do you think he's getting bored of me?

Honesty will be rewarded.

Thanks

Allyphobia

Answer 1

He is tired, he's gotten you to you and know that you are there so he doesn't feel that he has to keep up pace.

Answer 2

That's kinda the "marriage syndrome", it happens when you get used to s*x with the same person over and over.  Don't worry, it's normal ;-)

Answer 3

the normal gravitational pattern of a relationship.

As the relationship becomes longer, it is not longer a top priority to be at it like jack rabbits. As long as you still HAVE s*x, maybe not everyday, but once a week, that is healthy. Even if you go longer stretches without s*x that is healthy too. As long as he doesn't reject all of your advances for s*x, it is a healthy relationship (sometimes guys just don't feel horny, but thats not usually the case EVERY day)

If you try setting the mood and splaying yourself out on the bed and he still doesn't go for it (cmon, what guy is going to reject a woman who is already naked and on his bed) then that might be the key to move on.  

Answer 4

its what happnes in relationships. you get comfortabel with someone .. the s*x lessons and it turns more into honney home maker and mr. bring home the bacon. try some new things in the bedroom.. or start a project together.. or go on a vacation, a date even. show him the spark is still there, and act like you first did when you first met. Flirt with him, pinch his butt, wink at him, call him a stud. get his juices going. people just fall into these "comfortable" states, and a lot of relationships get boring :( mix things up!  

Answer 5

That's often i sign of cheating..

Answer 6

Stop doing everything. You may make him feel inadequate. Make him feel NEEDED..  

Answer 7

Well it seems kind of early on in the relationship for boredom so I do not think that that is it....are you sure he isn't getting it from somewhere else? Like maybe you are the "other" girl? It just seems like it is too early on for him to get bored of you.

Answer 8

Next time you get the chance, try something new in bed. If couples do spend too much time in s*x, it isn't necessarily a bad thing, but this means that you needs to keep it unique and not so monotonous. Try researching position that you haven't tried or, if you haven't already, talk about each others personal philias (fetishes) and play it off from there.

Answer 9

Honestly, I think it's just that in the beginning there was a lot of lust, kind of wanting to discover "new territory" but after a while, the relationship gets more comfortable and you don't need s*x to be stable and happy together.

Answer 10

That's not good at all. I think you need to sit down and have a chat with him. He needs to know how you feel. Communication is very vital in any relationship, especially in a situation like this.

Answer 11

When a couple lives together the relationship tends to get boring. So in order to keep spice in the relationship u should try new things. Such as a change of sexual positions,Wear s**y things around him, tease him, make him wait a will before u give in to s*x. .

Answer 12

This isn't easy to say, but I think it means that he's not happy with the relationship.  Not to mean he no longer finds you attractive.  Just that probably he's not getting his emotional needs met.  Do you make an effort to share his same interests?  Do you stroke his ego?