What does it mean when your boyfriend or husband sleeps with his back to you? ?

Question

Usually after s*x or not he rolls over and puts his back to me when he sleeps. he never sleeps close to me either usually its way on the other side of the bed. am i putting to much thought in to this or is there something really wrong?

Answer 1

More likely than not,it's just the position he finds most comfortable sleeping in.I think you are putting way to much thought in his sleeping position,but if it bothers you,talk to him about it and the two of you find a way to compromise.

Answer 2

On one hand, he could be turning away because he doesn't want to cuddle or for some reason he's "finished" with you and doesn't want to be near you. On the other hand, he just may be more comfortable sleeping on his other side. Or maybe you have bad breath or you snore? There's a bunch of possibilities.

Tonight, or the next time you have s*x, do it so you end up on the opposite side of him (so if he turns to lay on his right side to go to sleep, you'll be there) you need to know what side of his body he sleeps on.

If you do that, and he rolls over, let it go. Ask him about it in the morning or the next opportune time. Let him know that it's not a big deal *though you may think it is* and that you're just curious.

Good luck!

Answer 3

Some peoples are not like to sleep close others.Me also that charector.so u dont worry.

Answer 4

Ya know my husband complains all the time about this to me, and I just telling him that I'm just more comfortable turning and facing that way. Theres nothing wrong with him,.  I like space when I sleep. It's just that simple. It's possible your boyfriend feels the same way. Chances are theres nothing wrong.

Answer 5

because thats how he feels comfortable sleeping..

some people just cant sleep close to the other person...for example my bf is hot blooded therefore cant cuddle much cause he sweats too bad...

dont read more into it...he just isnt a cuddler..

Answer 6

I know in my case, I can only sleep on my side so after the lovin, I can only stay facing my lady for so long and have to roll over. Plus, I'm always hot in bed, (temp. wise) and after getting all worked up I need to get away and cool down for a bit.

Not trying to make excuses for your man but that's where I'm coming from.

You can always ask him why he does that too.

Answer 7

You are putting WAY too much thought into it.  I am sure everything is fine.  He is probably just comfortable laying on that side.  My husband almost always sleeps not facing me and I usually lay on my stomach.  We both like our space in bed.  

Answer 8

I wouldn't worry about it. I can't have my wife touching me when i'm trying to get to sleep after s*x or otherwise. It's just uncomfortable and sweaty. You can't move about properly either.