What does it takes to really love a female partner.?

Question

What does it takes to really love a female partner.?

Answer 1

I believe that love means (irregardless of the s*x of the partner) truly accepting someone.  No matter their flaws, or financial situation, or baggage.  

As far as what does it take?  Are you asking if there is a measurement before you find out you love a partner?  Or simply, are you trying to find out if you really love a partner?  

I'll answer both, since I'm unsure.  I believe that you find you love someone when you can see yourself with this person forever and you now see all other "possible" partner's as sister's or brother's or friends.  At least, that's what happened with me.  My husband of 9 years believes I "lead" people on and I "flirt" a lot because with all other guys I've ever met since my husband, I'm nice to them like how I am with my own brother, but I do not have any lustful feelings for them.  I think it's a compliment to my husband- but he's not in my mind so he's skeptical.

Of course, there is the possibility that love can mean a lot of different things to everyone else.  

Good luck!

Answer 2

everything,sometimes nothing,it all depends on your female partner,and you..her likes and dislikes,her idea for the meaning of life,what in her makes you want to be with her all the time,even when you disagree,you must be attentive,kind,respectful,honest,funny,s... at all times,know that she is always right,cause a woman always think things through then act on it,and she can think very fast,so that makes her right...when she is angry and starts yelling,don't say anything...if she say to say something,say sorry,thats it.always compliment her in every thing,if the cooking is not good, still say it is good.cause she knows it taste like s.....t but what you have to say is important about the meal..if you treat her this way, you will find that she is happy and starts treating you the same way  in which you treat her...hope I helped a little be..good luck.

Answer 3

not being selfish  

Answer 4

From my perspective, we want to feel special occasionally, not be taken for granted, be hugged and reminded that we are loved once in a while. As well as needing loyalty, companionship, making the effort no matter how long you have been together. To really love a female partner, the effort should be put in to the relationship to make it work, thats the best any man can do in my opinion, not just by material things, but remembering to show the love every so often...