What does my dream mean, and why does it occur so often?

Question

You can read my dream here, I am in no mood to retype.

http://www.dreamcrowd.com/dream/18491/Sucide

I just keep getting a complete mixed message from dreamcrowd about this, so I need somebody to clear and sum it up for me.

Thanks.

Answer 1

oh..

wow...

werid dream...

i think its quiet scary...

but im not sure what it means...

maybe a message in some of it....

if you remeber the details well the you should...

think of some parts that are off and put it together in your head....

not all dreams are real..

some are just thoughts that your mind makes up...

and sometimes they can be a message...

but the message is hard to figure out and you have to figure out on your own...

just try not letting it happen...

if you dont let it happen everything will be good..

^_^

Answer 2

I think this dream is a serious warning to you. But before you read my interpretation, please understand that I'm not trying to be disrespectful.

I'm sorry for my strong/harsh words..I hope you understand that I'm just trying to be honest/direct with the interpretation. I don't want to beat around the bush but be very straight forward.

Here is my interpretation...

Your friend is going to die...

You will become like him...dead too..

Your friend will die quietly/silently..since you didn't hear any gun shot. You were unable to save him despite your desperate attempts.

I'm not sure whether it's a physical death or spiritual death.

When we sin against God, our spirit man died which is called "spiritual death".

In the Bible, same s*x(homosexual, L*****n) relationship is forbidden by God and is a "serious sin" against God. I guess your homosexual practices will harm you and possibly bring death(physical or spiritual death) to you...and especially to your bisexual friend.

"Black" usually speaks of "death or dying, sorrow and mourning"..

Is your friend feeling very depressed & discouraged?

Is he trying to kill himself? Commiting suicide? ..since you mentioned that he was holding a gun.

You mentioned that he was in the bathroom. I guess he was trying to get himself "clean"(figuratively speaking)...probably from drugs? guilt feeling? relationship problems? other problems in life? identity problem(man or woman)?

But he couldn't get himself out of it...and he decided to take his own life...

You mentioned that there is a song being played and everybody turned and watched you...

This means that the song is specially referring to you...since everybody looked at you...

For your information, a person who does not know God is consider lost....lost in your identity(man or woman), direction in life, and lost without God...You need to find God,.. you need to know Jesus Christ who is "the Way, the Truth & the Life"..Jesus will show you the way, the truth and give you eternal life.

Both of you need to get help seriously...Probably, you should consult a pastor to help you...

By the way, I realized that most of the dream interpreters here are using trial & errors method..They have little understanding of dream interpretations.

When interpreting dreams, firstly you need to know the main issues or the key meanings of the dream before going into the details of the dream. This will prevent you from interpreting it out of context and to help you focus on the main issues.

I totally disagree with "acirfa1" interpretation on the funeral issue. His mistakes is he doesn't understand the main issues or the context of the dream. Without understanding the context, you can easily make mistakes in interpreting dreams. You can come out with many different interpretations & meanings when you don't understand the context, as what happened in "www.dreamcrowd.com".

Please feel free to email me if you have further questions...

Answer 3

Try right click your mouse,press copy & then paste..

The dream is trying desperately to tell you something. It usually points to a personal weakness, fear, or your inability to cope with something in your life - past or present. It may point to a conflict, situation or matter in your waking life that remains unresolved or unsettled.

The gun may represent a nearly desperate need to reassert personal control in the situation or to find personal power in relationship to others.

Gun symbolizes aggression, anger, and potential danger. You may be dealing with issues of passiveness/aggressiveness and authority/dependence

So what is it that your really afraid of in your waking life that you are dealing with?

You say your g*y but your boyfriend is bisexual..Could that be the problem? Are you okey that he is bisexual? You did say in your dream,

I'm frantically banging on the door & trying to convince him to stop!

The gun is a methaphor..So what are you really trying to convince him to stop?

You also said, you never hear the gun shot (because there is no gun)

but he doesn't ever walk out of the bathroom alive..Meaning the problem is never resolve..Thats why it keeps repeating..

Next you say, theres always a funeral.

( this is the part on how you deal and react.)

Dreaming about funerals does not necessarily symbolize physical death for you or anyone else. It could instead symbolize an ending of a different kind. You may be burying relationships, conditions or even emotions that you no longer need and that are no longer conducive to your personal growth. On the other hand, this dream may symbolize the burying of sensitivities and emotions that are too difficult to cope with. It may reflect numbness or a feeling that is the opposite of aliveness, such as depression and emptiness. Either way, burying a person that is alive suggests some emotional turmoil.(commotion of confusion/agitation)

Im a little confuse by what you mean..you wrote:

All of our friends and none of his family would be standing outside all in black around his black casket?

you said none of his family would be standing outside???but yet they were?

What did you mean?

Im feeling that your friends don't approve of him and/or his friends & family don't know his bisexual???

why did you say?,it hits you particularly odd how green the grass is when everybody is holding an umbrella when the weather is perfect..

Does that have to do with anything in accepting? How everything should go in place only if they new?

Black rose/black hair/dressed in black -Hidden things. Your shadow (an aspect of your personality that is hidden, unknown and/or repressed within your unconscious mind. Black may represent despair or depression.

The funeral is something you want to end..Death is a good omen. What lies in the end is a new beggining..

You said, 'the same song plays right in the middle'..

Do you remember what the song is? what was the verse? that could be important too..

When you realiaze that you were him..That could either mean something that part of him you want to burry that you dont approve and walking away with a new beggining..

?????

YOU, TELL ME....

Answer 4

I cannot but be morose about this dream.  It does not omen good.  Don't worry, you will not die soon, in fact will live long according to the dream.  You will have temporary relationships that will ultimately sour.  If fact you will be punished by fate throughout your life so as to walk the straight and narrow.  Dreaming that this all happens to your friend does not mean it will actually happen to him.  It can be a projection of events concerning you onto him.  In my opinion, you are spiritually dead as you see the greenness which indicates religion but are oblivious to its teachings as you are dead in a coffin.  You need to aspire to greater things than you do now as you are spiritually dead and without guidance.  The wind blowing in your face also indicates some suffering you will face as a result of ignorance and arrogance.

Regards