What does my mom mean by this?

Question

Well I told my mom to tell my dad and she said

Me - I think we should tell dad

Mom - It's ok you learned your lesson

Me - But it feels so weird without telling you guys stuff!

Mom - Thats why you need to tell us right after you do it when you realize you did something wrong!

Me - Mom Why dont you tell him?

Mom - We'll See.

20 minutes later ----

Me - You have to go to work now mom?

Mom - Yup Ok Byee

Me - I hope you tell him

Mom - (name)! stop!

Me - Ok.. Sorry. Bye love you

I don't know what do u think? Will she tell him? (Here's the story)

1 year and 3 months ago ---

I talked to this guy And showed him a picture a long time ago and he showed me a picture (not naked or anything) After i found out it was wrong i had already done it. I forgot it until today i remembered it and i could barely sleep because i told my mom but i didnt tell my dad! I want my mom to tell him, or at least tell me to tell him. But do you think she will?

Answer 1

This is a very confusing problem...however it all seems to stem from a lack of communication.  If you are not sleeping over this matter maybe you should tell another trusted adult outside the home, like a school councelor or a church leader...anytime you feel that something is "wrong" it usually is...your mom may have a reason for not saying anything but regardless it is hurting you to withhold this information from your father...so i really think you should explain the isse to a trusted adult and seek their advise.

good luck

Answer 2

I'm not sure from that story it doesn't sound like it! But it will definately show your parents responsibility if you go and tell your dad without anyone telling you too! Just make sure to tell him you know what you did was wrong and you wouldn't of done it if you knew it wasn't safe!

Answer 3

SHes probably NOT going to tell him, because he might flip out on you. Trust ur mamas instincts, she knows him better. She's probably saving you by not telling him, so just stop worrying about telling your dad

Answer 4

forget about it, think about what you are going to do in the future, try spending more time with your parents.

Answer 5

I am not sure, dads get very protective of their little girls, especially when it comes to men.  your mom may think this happened so long ago that it would not do any good to tell him now.  How does  he react when you talk about boys or going on dates.  If he gets upset easily then he may hit the roof knowing his little girl sent pictures of herself to a man on the internet.  I guess it is up to you, if you do not want to lie to your dad then tell him, there is no reason why you can't.

Answer 6

just tell him.

besides, its in the past.

Answer 7

if i want my mom 2 do that i just i get kinda in trouble but i just tell my dad and if he tells my mom grounded or whateva but at least i can sleep and eat and stuf

Answer 8

If you weren't naked, what's the big deal??  A simple, clean photograph and you're worried about your parents?

Answer 9

How the h**l should we know?  That story does not even make sense.

Answer 10

I dont think its that big of a deal all it is is a pic. Prob. not unless u tell her how much that it means to you

Answer 11

you have done what?? well i think your mom doesn't what to tell dad shes proably sacare...

Answer 12

mayb your mom knows best in this situation,,mayb she has her own fears about your dad  knowing  about the pic,,so i would let mom handel  it,,peace

Answer 13

How old are you? But if you want your dad to know then tell him your self.  Your mom probably thinks its no big deal because it happened so long ago. Either let it it go yourself and realize you were lucky nothing happened, or tell your dad just to get it off your chest.

Answer 14

if you really want him to know just tell him it will be fine...i think your mom just didnt want to tell him because she was affraid he would overreact since you are his little girl and he woulsnt want anything to happen to you.  

Answer 15

huh? what was the pic of?

Answer 16

really your concerned that you showed some random guy a non nude picture of yourself, and he showed you a non nude picture of himself?  What do you thinkk myspace or facebook is? WHy are you so worried about it?

Answer 17

if you did something wrong, you did not explain because I don't see that you did anything wrong...

what's wrong with sharing pictures if you are fully clothed???

Answer 18

What?

Answer 19

Why don't you tell him if it's so important that he knows? Or ask your mum if you can tell him if she doesn't want to tell him.

And why was it wrong? It was more than a year ago, it can't be that wrong anymore

Answer 20

She probably thinks your dad will take this information to heart or take it the wrong way. There's no reason to tell your parents about everything you do, especially your dad if you're a girl.  

Answer 21

idk it depends y the pic was wrong...

just because you diddnt know him, cuz ppl who you dont kno can see your profile pic on myspace/facebook any ways

Answer 22

. . . What ?!

Answer 23

Hi!

Oh my goodness child,If your mom won't do it then if you want to then you should tell him.It looks like your mom either doesn't want to tell him or doesn't feel comfortable.

Answer 24

My first thought is that maybe your mom knows that your dad will make a big deal out of it and maybe even make you feel really bad about telling him so she's just being a mom and trying to prevent more embarresement, etc from happeneing, ( I don't know exactly what happened so I'm not sure, but this could be it. )