What does she want from me? help?

Question

She knows I like her, and more than that.

We've been best friends for years...

and then I told her how much i liked her

She wanted to be just friends with benefits, and she would constantly talk about other guys with me. She knows I hate that and that it hurts me... but she does it anyway.

The only time she ever kisses me or more is when she wants something from me.

For example, I'd do a project of hers, once I did a whole on-line college course of hers and pulled off an A, during the time period of me doing the course, she would kiss up to me and fool around with me but after the class ended she stopped doing that and now only does those things when she wants something...

I really liked the person she was before the FWB and that's who I fell for, but i'm not so sure about the person she's become.

I still love her because I remember how she was before, a couple of months ago when the FWB started.

Every time I try to go 'cold turkey' on her she pleads and begs and stalks me until I forgive her.

I don't know what to do :( and she's all I think about and cry over...

Should I tell her how I feel about this or would that make things weird/worse?

Answer 1

I say treat her poorly, like she treat you. Then only be nice to her to get the benefits, then go back to treating her poorly again... unitl you need more benefits...

Either you are going to get mistreated or she is. And isn't it better that you get what you want and treated the way you should be treated than have her walk all over you?

Over time, she will learn: You are a man!

Good luck.