My fiance and I have been together for 3 yrs and engaged for 1 yr. I'm not sure about when and if we are getting married because this relationship gives me a lot of stress. Long story short, I thought he was the one for me but now i'm starting to think twice. He does not like to plan anything at all. I try to talk to him about when are we going to set a wedding date , every time I ask him his reply ALWAYS changes my mood. He always replies" I don't know ", how after 3 yrs does he still not know. He says if I keep pressuring him I'm actually pushing him away . I haven't talked about marriage now for 6 months but every night when I'm at home laying in my bed I get really depressed thinking about my future with this man. I need to know what I should do. By the way he's 38 and divorced , I'm 29 and divorced. I think about my life every day and I want to get married and have kids, I have a great job and I make great money and so does he. Sometimes I think if I walk away from him I'll end up losing a good guy with a good heart, then sometimes I think I'll be his fiance for another 3 years. What is a person to do in this situation? Maybe someone will tell me something I'm just not seeing, Please help Me !!!
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