What does their behavior say about me?

Question

About a week ago, i was locked out of my house. Called a friend up - had known their family for over 2 years. They have a big house but suggested that i stay in a hotel. It wasn't a big deal but still in the back of my mind i wondered why they didn't offer to put me up for the night, since they had plenty of space. I did spend a night in a motel...but was thinking, if they really trusted me, would they have put me up? Or was it normal?

Answer 1

You don't say how or why you were locked out of your house.  I've been locked out of my house but it never caused me to stay anywhere else overnigth.  I always got myself in before sunset.  Where you locked out because someone inside was unhappy with your behavior?  

Maybe these folks don't like you as much as you think they did.  Get extra keys, find other friends, and don't get locked out of your house.

Answer 2

they're either distrusting of you or embarrassed by you, somehow. either way it's not a behavior that i would take to mean they're a GOOD friend.

Answer 3

It might be that they just have issues with having guest stay overnight, period.

Answer 4

I think they are a little bit selfish...Or maybe they didn't trust you enough. How often have you interacted with them?

Is he/her single?

Answer 5

maybe the women.. is a clean or neat freak! or ya know.. maybe they have heard something about you.. no clue!

Answer 6

i kind of think that what they did was a little cold, but i can't say to much because i don't know them and who knows what might have happened. i don't understand why their actions would reflect you, its not like their your family...i wouldn't worry about it. but you should have tried to get an explanation by asking questions like: so, what are you guys up to lately.....?