What does this Virgo's action mean? I'm confused.

Question

I have a crush on a Virgo but can't tell if he feels the same. We are very good friends....in fact, very close friends because he is like a best friend to me...I tell him everything because I trust him and feel comfortable with him. However, I can't tell if he feels the same because he doesn't show a lot of emotions. I'm guessing that he does because his actions show that he is very caring...brings me lunch so my ulcer pains don't start, go to lunch with me pick restaurants I like, etc. I know we are more than just friends because sometimes in a playful way, I ask him for a kiss and he gives me a peck on the lips. Although it has been a platonic relationship, we sometimes are very close and intimate with each other. But I just can't tell if he also have the same feelings for me as I have for him. He doesn't show a lot of emotions and definitely don't talk about it. I would think that if he doesn't want to be close to me or have feelings for me, he would just say no if I wanted a kiss or a hug. I just can't tell what he's thinking. Does it take a long time for Virgos to open up? What does all this mean?

Answer 1

The thing about Virgos is that they are givers, and they find it hard to say no to people.  They like to put other people's needs first, but at the same time, they like the fine details.  If YOU ask him to kiss you on the lips, he won't say no.  If you ASK him to pick a restaurant, he will.  Stuff like that makes them givers.  They're pretty straight forward, and they like a chase, not someone that they can easily have.  i say you just totally switch it up if you would like to see how he really feels.  If he doesn't react at all, it's a sign he's not interested, but if he reacts after a few days of you putting a spanner in the works, that's a GOOD sign!

Answer 2

It means that its time you put your feelings on the table.  Platonic friends don't kiss each other on the lips, they kiss on the cheek. He is sending mixed signals and you're reeling from it all. You need to find out if he has the same thing going on inside of him. Virgo people value their friendships. They're analytical as all h**l, and while he may be attracted to you he may also be weighing the risk involved with potentially losing a great friend if it doesn't work out between you. Or, he could have someone else on his mind. Why not ask if he could imagine you two as a couple? You could ask in a joking manner. "Do you think if we got together as a couple we'd end up killing each other?" Or something to that effect and see how he responds.  I would follow it up with telling him you've been giving it a lot of thought lately. If this is someone that you're intimate with, you should have no trouble discussing where your relationship is headed.

Answer 3

I'm a Virgo. I can really relate

I have this really deep fear of rejection. Of finally opening up to someone, and then, that person turning on me. That would probably the worst thing....ever..

But, I'm getting over it. I try to open up to people, sometimes even force myself to do so.

I take a VERY long time to open up. I really have to trust the other person completely and totally, and I dont really find those people a lot. And I hold onto my emotions for dear life. I just cant let myself go, and be exposed so freely. Sometimes, when I tell someone I like them, they ask me after a month or so "do you still like me?" And I'm shocked. Because I don't "like" someone easily. But, my lack of emotional display makes people think that I don't care about them...which is TOTALLY untrue

So basically, hes probably in that wavering phase of "can I trust her." I would just prove to him again and again how loyal you are, and tell him constantly you're not going to leave him. Show how much you need him and remind him of how he can trust you. Wait it out. He'll learn that you're not gonna turn your back on him.