What does this behaviour mean?

Question

Whenever my mum asks about the heating, in my dad's room, my dad suddenly starts attacking me, saying I leave the doors open, while my wall heating is on. This is not true, I always keep it shut, but it's making me unnerved, that he is focussing all the time, on my actions.

Answer 1

Sorry dear about the situation at hand. It could probably mean that you are vulnarable and could easily be picked upon, with less effort.

probably you keep around a lot, go visiting friends and if posible, stay away from home for some few days.

Good luck dear

Answer 2

Dads are funny creatures... Try this, Yell and scream @ him over nothing in particular and see how he likes it.....Immature I know but some so called grown men are not quite grown... LOL..

As for mum well maybe she just needs another pill...Sorry that was uncalled for but it just seem's she's obilvious to it all....

Answer 3

It means he is a coward and would rather blame someone else than have your mom get made at him.  Very tacky for a grown man.

Answer 4

Hello Irena.

Not enough information here.

Are you saying your mother and father each have their own bedrooms?

I am thinking there is a buildup of anger here, at least in your father and maybe in your mother that is being incorrectly directed at you.

Maybe you are involved in some manner, it is hard to know.

You will need to give a more complete description of the situation in order for people to respond intelligently and effectively to you.

Good luck.

Answer 5

men!men!men!the best you can do is make sure that you can prove that hes wrong right on time when he blames you.and if he doesnt stop after that talk 2 him and tell him that u dont apreciate being picked on unneccesarily that way.good luck

Answer 6

he has never grown up

and faced responsibility in the eye

he always looks for excuses

you need to watch that man closely