What does this dream mean? I dreamt my husband was suffocating me with our bed pillow. He was very angry,mean!

Question

We had just gone to sleep & I dreamt my husband was trying to suffocate me with the bed pillow. He looked so wicked & mean! I was so scared of him! I woke up from the dream & what is really wierd my husband had a bed pillow up high , right by my head that he was holding! I grabbed it and threw it off the bed. I could not sleep then. The next couple of nights I would wake up again & he would have another pillow up by my head he would be holding.This was NOT NORMAL.He usually only uses a extra pillow between his legs. I fianlly told him about the dream & he said he said he would never hurt me. We have been having marriage counseling because I caught him cheating , but he won't tell all & we are trying to fix our marriage, but I can't trust him. He took lie detector tests which he failed big time. Tries to deny all evidence against him. Poloygraher's said it was big whatever he is hiding.His pride is very big & he is one that can't reveal things easily. Does not like to admit being wrong.

Answer 1

Well, that's quite a problem you have on your hands. If you've been having these dreams, than your best possible bet is to examine all the possibilities. Before you had these dreams, had you and your husband recently had a fight? Has your husband begun doing this since you found out that he was cheating on you? Since you found out, does you husband suffer from sleep walking or impulsive violent actions during his sleep at night? These are only a few of the possibilities that must be thoroughly examined. I cannot really give you any type of advice because I must admit that I really do not know why he is reacting in such a manner. I strongly suggests that you review these points of interest and if he continues to react in this way, I suggest you consult a psychiatrist. I wish you the best of luck.

Answer 2

I'm no expert but I would say get out while the gettin's good, sister.  Make sure your friends and family know if something happens to you, look at him first.  Have a daily contact.  Everyday I will call mom or sis by noon, if I don't, WORRY.  Really, I would say get out.  You don't trust, he hasn't come clean..........why would you put yourself in that situation?  Don't be another Lacy Peterson or the like. You have many who love you!