What does this sexual dream mean?

Question

I dreamed about losing my virginity. It scared the c**p out of me.

Answer 1

You could look at the dream in a wholly sexual sense-a fulfillment of sexual desires and such BUT the dream could also mean different stuff...

If we see s*x as the completion of physical development (it is the most basic means by which we direct the now complete, adult body towards others, so to speak) then your dream could represent a similar DESIRE FOR COMPLETION AND SUCCESS-perhaps of a task or the development of a relationship, or else a desire to become independent of the parents or some other authority figure (if you believe that, once you reach sexual maturity, you are ready for an 'adult' responsibility and lifestyle).

IF YOU RECOGNISED the guy (I'm assuming it's a guy, anyway...) you had s*x with, it may also be that the s*x within the dream represents a 'merging'-you intend to develop you own, currently inadequete, persona with a new characterisitc-a characteristic you believe to be very strong in the person you had s*x with.

IF YOU DIDN'T RECOGNISE the fella you had s*x with, it could be that, anxious about a virginity you are ashamed of, you repress troublesome sexual urges and your ideas of what men are. This repression leaves ideas and desires pent up within the unconscious-the only release for you overwrought and anxious ego (conscious mind) is in projecting these ideas onto someone you can then have s*x with, and that until then the ideas and desires will remain stuck in the mind, personified by the male figure you had s*x with.

All these desires are, however, only desires. You wake up, realise the reality of your situation and that you DIDN'T  enjoy some raunchy s*x after all, and are naturally frustrated and sad.

I won't offer any advice or anything, because I'm not a doctor and I'm not you, and dreams still vary with the dreamers own interpretation and understanding-though it is a bit weird that you tell the vast and evil world of the internet that you dreamed of losing your virginity. Hey-ho.

Answer 2

it means you had a s**y dream. That's it.

Answer 3

ive had this dream many times it means u r attracted to someone

Answer 4

It means your body wants s*x, its telling your mind to catch up.

Answer 5

it could mean that when the time is right, you will be happy and you will enjoy it. but untill then, dont worry too much about it. its just a dream. lol. or your going to lose something, and your going to be happy about it. lol! i dont know for sure, but goodluck.

Answer 6

It could mean literally what it is. You are not ready to lose your virginity yet. Or it could mean that you are not ready for something else to happen?!

Answer 7

I have a book that interprets dreams, it doesn't say anything about losing your virginity but says that being a virgin suggests a state of innocence and purity. So I would think that if you lose your virginity in a dream it would mean that maybe you have lost your state of innocence...but whether or not you agree is another thing, it could mean nothing to you.