What does this sound like to you plz anwser and tell me?

Question

ok i dated this man for 5 years.we was fine the first 3 years then he started fighting alot and i don't know really what happend with use i went with my best friend and i was upset that night really bad my friend told me it would make me feel better to go hang out with her so i did and when i got to her house they where alot of people there i did't know they put something in my drink and i was date raped my boyfriend broke up with me over it and he had a new grilfriend 2 weeks later i wanted to kill myself over this if he loved me why did't he stay with me and be there for me thats how i felt.he told me that he broke up with me cuz he was thinking i was lieing how could i be after all that done to me and how i felt i was so alone and felt it he lift me when i needed him most he acks as if he did;t even care should i move on or what and what does this sound like if he did't love me why was he wih me for 5 years oh did he just find someone else i meen what i don't understand what hapend i know i love him still i just don't know what to do.I was haveing to face so much he could have been there for me and loved me but he did't at all he just lifted me

Answer 1

Talk to his new girlfriend and tell her how he treated you. And then keep track of how long it takes him to find gf number 3. Once word gets around about how shallow the guy is, he might change, Maybe.

It will take a while for you to recover from your ordeal from the party. This will be very hard. And it will take time to recover from your 5 year relationship with "what's his name" but you will. As long as you stay active, and don't wear your victimhood on your sleeve. I know that this is not a good thing to say, Talk is good therapy. But constantly reminding yourself of this horrible experience will only drive you deeper into seclusion.    Teach others.

I'm glad to have you as a contact. :D

Answer 2

Poor baby.

You were not really in love.

Give it some time, love is from the souls.

Your soul will find the right soul if you are patient.

Then love will be forever.

Answer 3

Oh..wow,l feel for you l really do.

What you have been through has been pretty rough.

as far as your ex boyfriend goes...l think that probably you were not meant to be together forever.the first three years ok...but the next two a lot of fighting,must tell you something.

l would advise some counseling to help you get your life back on track.Hopefully you also have some good friends to help you along the way.l know it is hard...but you need to forget the ex,and begin a new chapter in your life.....Better still a brand new book.

All the best in the future.

Answer 4

please try to move on. you are very depressed and disappointed because you felt neglected and betrayed...

try to meet new friends.. online chat can help you..

avoid compromise even with friends and learn from the incident, that will help you become  stronger and wiser, and become more admirable in the process..learn and find grace even after the fall..grace and wisdom is a trait that stands out that and wraps a person with some dignified aura, and men usually find that attractive..

youll soon forget about him...a boyfriend is just another acquiantance... .you still have a family to turn to.. remember blood is thicker than water and your family will never put you down..