What exactly does this mean? confusing?

Question

2 days ago i had a dream that i was kissing a guy that asked me out. thing is i dont like him like that, but yet i ended making out with him in the park in my dream. i like this other guy and he's my friend. i know for sure i dont like the other guy...then last night i had another dream with him in it.

so even though i dont like this guy why am i having dreams like this with him in it...shouldn't it be the guy that i really really like? im so confused.

Answer 1

I had to laugh about this question.  Because it happens to me all the time and the only thing I can figure out is that when someone shows an interest in me and it is not mutual, there really is a small part of myself that entertains the thought for a hot second.  I look at them again in "that" sort of way and think, 'I wonder what  that would be like"?

  And even though I try not to, I'll find myself paying a little bit more attention to that person and watching them without their knowledge.  Almost "auditioning" them in my head.

  Most of the time it's just a passing thing and I'm pretty good at shrugging stuff off and letting it go.

  But there have been times when that question, "what would that be like" stays out there and I let it hang around just to amuse myself.

  It's fine.  You're perfectly normal and laugh it off.  We humans are such dopes sometimes.......

Answer 2

Your self conscious is telling you that you'll never be with the guy you want and are stuck w/ guys you don't want.  Your dream is displaying your fear.

Answer 3

Which is what your dream showcases...your confusion between the supposed guy you are to like and the one you are sure about not liking.

Perhaps the surety is crumbling...

Then again, it's a dream. I once dreamt I was in Egypt, and woke up in the same death furnace California.

Answer 4

then maybe deep in your heart you like him

Answer 5

If you are kissing a close friend, then it represents your respect and adoration for your friend. You are seeking some intimate closeness that is lacking in some waking relationship. It may or may not signify a romantic interest for him or her.  (most likely it is due to you feeling that since you do not like him back you could be loosing his friendship.  Just because you dont want to date him doesn't mean you want to cut him out of your life totally.)

To dream that you are at a park, represents a temporary escape from reality. It indicates renewal, meditation, and spirituality. It is also an indication of a readjustment period after a serious personal conflict or an ending of a passionate affair.  (Also due to the fast that you dont like him the way he wants you to but at the same time you dont want to hurt his feelings.  You are having a fight with yourself on how to deal with keeping his friendship but some how also telling him you dont like him in that way.  That can be a hard task to do and so you are expressing your stress and worry in your dream)

The closes thing I could find on making out is making love..  Which if you are a virgin making out would be as far as your dream would take you so maybe this may help or just an add on you can ignore...

To dream that you are making love (making out) in public or in different places, relates to some overt sexual issue or need.  Your dream may be telling you that you need to express yourself more openly. Alternatively, it represents your perceptions about your own sexuality in the context of politic and social norms. You may be questioning your feelings about s*x, marriage, love, and just where you fit in. (This may be due to the fact that you do like someone else and you aren't sure if you are good enough for him.  You may be putting yourself down a lot now that the guy you dont like wants you and the guy you do like isn't acting.  The best way to win a guy over is to like yourself first.  If you dont even like yourself how can anyone else.)

I really hope this helps..  If you need anything else just ask.  I love dreams since i have them all the time and I've gotten really good at understanding what they mean not just what they seem to mean. Good luck!

Answer 6

Dreams are visual metaphors.   Your sub conscience is digesting your days events as you perceive them.   For example, if you imagine you are "flirting with disaster"  your dreaming mind will interpret you making out with someone less than the desirable.

       Our dreams rarely come true.    Dreams have a language of their own .

Answer 7

Hmm sounds to me like you could have a sub-conscious crush on this guy, and you are too headstrong to realise it yet!