What exactly happens during an o****m?

Question

14 years old and just want some info on things my friends already know

Answer 1

it s agreat pleasure .

Answer 2

o****m is a whole bunch of things that are all happening at once... so here's a fairly comprehensive look at them:

It can take anywhere from a few seconds to a couple of hours to reach o****m... both of these are unusual but normal, and anything in between is just fine.

Just before o****m, you might have a feeling a bit like you have to pee, but it's not quite the same, and when your o****m first happens, there'll be a very strong (sometimes intense and *powerful*), warm and sometimes tingly feeling that spreads from your clitoris to your v****a and then through your whole lower body. Then very quickly your clitoris, your v****a, your crotch muscles and your butt-hole will squeeze and pulse a few times while that feeling spreads all over you.

During all this, your toes will probably curl, you might feel like you need to hold your breath or like you have to breathe really fast, your body will want to tense up and might jerk or shake or shiver, and you might make some noises (grunts, gasps, groans or cries) that you can't really control. Your skin will flush pink (maybe only a little), especially around the top of your chest, and you'll probably sweat a little (maybe a lot) all over your body.  You might "squirt" or "ejaculate" a lot of fluid from your urethra (don't worry, it's not pee). The whole time, it's just about the best feeling there is.

(Everything you "might" feel or do above isn't always going to happen... some orgasms are much less overwhelming than just *very* pleasureable.)

As that feeling becomes more gentle and starts to go away (after maybe 5 to 20 seconds), your whole body will begin to relax, and you might feel sort of like having a nap... or like just lying there and letting your mind drift... or perhaps even like doing it again: every woman is different, and every *time* can be different.

One thing you can do to find out is check out this webpage:

http://www.coolnurse.com/masturbation_ho...

Read the page all the way through, and try some of the things suggested (including the "extras" linked at the bottom). Take your time (it might take a whole afternoon the first time), and just enjoy learning what feels best for you. Sooner or later, you'll have an o****m, and they get better each time if you're one of those lucky girls who can have them again and again.

Then you'll know for sure whether or not your friends have been giving you the straight goods about what it's like.

Have fun and don't worry. Masturbation is having s*x with the only person you'll ever meet who knows *exactly* what you feel and what you like, even if that changes every second. It's normal and healthy, learning what pleases you sexually is good for you, and when the time eventually comes for having s*x with the one you really *want*, you'll be able to tell them (or to show them if you like) how they can please you the best.

Answer 3

your blood pressure rises, blood vessels dilate.