What exactly is a female ejaculation?

Question

i am a 43 year old woman and up untill about a year ago had never even heard of such a thing, let alone actually experienced one. Orgasms are one thing. But "squirting" as i've heard it referred to, raises the bar! (no pun intended) And when it happens simotaniously...WOW. But what exactly is a female ejaculation, what is happening to our bodies when we experience it, what and from where is the fluid coming from and why is it that we (as an older generation) have never ever even heard of such a thing? s*x Education classes we were taught in school didnt cover this! And our mothers/friends never broached this subject. Is it a new technology? ha ha well whatever the case may be. As a woman, i really must say, if one isnt familiar with it, it is definatly worth researching!! Talk about taking intimacy to a whole new level !

Answer 1

The Para-urethral Glands produce a fluid which may be expelled during an o****m. While their is debate as to whether it is real and whether all women are capable, I'll let you know that it works for me and here's how:

1) Relax - Don't just physically relax, but also relax your mind and emotions. Don't think about work, kids, "wetting the bed", making a mess.

2) Prepare - Have lube on hand in case you need it. Get a few towels (one to lay on, and one bunched up between your legs). Make sure that there are now distractions. Get comfortable. If you get stimulated by music, candles, scents, p**n, lights out, vibrator, d***o, etc... get it ready. Lastly, go pee (you'll see why later).

3) Technique - The technique for a partner and for yourself is similar, I'll write about the self method since everyone can do this. If there is a partner, you can teach them once you know how everything works. Also, think on a 1-10 scale for o****m, where 1 is not turned on, 8-9 is when you know it's coming, and 10 is o****m. Start by stimulating yourself in whatever fashion you normally do for masturbation. Once you have gotten yourself up to a 5-6, lie on your back, take two fingers (I use middle and ring) and insert them into your v****a. Bend them up (like you're trying to touch your palm) and 1-2 inches in, you'll feel a spot which feels a bit rougher (similar to the roof of your mouth), it's the Gspot. Explore this spot! Rub back and forth, side to side, in circles. If you prefer, you may use a d***o/vibrator on this area. If you want, play with your clitoris also, as long as it works for you. You will feel a great sensation which some people describe as needing to pee without the bladder fullness. I also feel it deep inside, like in the uterus area. You should also notice that your own lubrication has increased (let the towel get it and don't worry). Once you have gotten to about a 7-8, concentrate on the Gspot (at least this first time). In order to squirt, this will need a lot of stimulation, whether it's speed or pressure. I like holding my fingers in, slightly bent, and moving my hand up and down so my fingers hit the bottom and top of the v****a, stroking the sides and hitting the Gspot. Once you have reached then solid 9 and you are preceding to the 10 of o****m, keep the stimulation going until you are right there, then remove your fingers (or choice of object) and bear down like you are peeing or trying to do Kegel exercises. DON'T WORRY, you are not peeing, it's not possible while orgasming. The fluid expelled will be clear, odorless, slick, not urine. It may dribble out or it may squirt. Your towels should get most and if not, the cleanup is easy. You should fine your o****m goes to 11 now! not only do you have the regular o****m, but the ejaculation, quivering (legs, uterus, whole v****a, bucking hips), and i find that it lasts even longer than normal.

4) Afterwards - Don't give up, if you don't think it worked or not to your satisfaction, try again. If you have an open minded partner, show them. I have not found any man who thought this was weird or gross. All that I have been with thought it was great and it made them feel manly to give me such pleasure. Also, experiment with the technique, try clitoral stimulation while ejaculating. If you used your fingers, try a d***o. Try a vibrator on the Gspot.

I hope this works for you. Give it a whirl and let me know.

Answer 2

The paraurethral ducts secrete fluid (usually during a strong g-spot o****m). It is not very common among women. (except in certain adult videos).