What girl would possibly want me?

Question

I am 26 average looking live at home with my mom , my dad died when I was 19 so I stayed to help out... I have never dated or even kissed a girl ... I don't have my drivers license yet .I have taken the road test 3 times and failed .. I lost my job 5 months ago because I refused to cheat and I am still unemployed... I have no friends nor have I had a friend in over 10 years..

Girls that I have talked to say I am nice guy and that understand them better then most people (including there real friends) but this was only online . And they see me as a online guy friend... Even if wanted to make them real friends I couldn't for the fact I can't drive and most girl are turned off by driving the guy around...

All I have ever wanted is a girl I could give my heart to and make a life with but I know girls will never give me a chance... They want a guy with a great job loads of money and who looks like brad Pitt..

Answer 1

Hey! Most girls aren't like that, there are many who

don't care about money and looks... I think Brad

Pitt is gross anyway :) I would keep trying to get

my license if I were you many people fail the test

5 or more times but you cant give up. As far as a job

you will get one, just dont give up. I would take care

of yourself first and then look for a girl. Things will

get better for you, it is always darkest before the dawn :)

Answer 2

I like u ♥

Answer 3

You need to get out more , get into a sport or join a church that has singles night . find a job  walmart , Lowe's. home depot, or even a movie theater near you . If you can't drive get a bike then make it a goal to get your drivers license at once.  Get all your sh**t together then last but not least then worry about getting a girl. NO girl wants someone who is given up and not trying .If your lucky you will find someone at your new job that's how a lot of relationships get started.

Quit focusing soo much on the girl and get your life together before you become the 40 year old virgin......

Answer 4

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Answer 5

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Answer 6

If you get your driver's license it will be a lot easier to get girls. Without it it's hard to meet people. And Brad Pitt is in his forties. You still got time!

Answer 7

i think if girls say your that nice online try one of those online dating websites.

Answer 8

You sound like a nice guy have confidence in your self the right girl is out there don't give up.

Answer 9

the most important thing is how a guy is...and how he is to be around...not if he is super rich or cute...I have known rich guys and cute guys and because they are not nice guys I didn't want to be even their friend for long.

just work on learning how to drive and also you can get a job and do better...that are things you can do something about.

guys might be rich or cute but a good person is priceless!

Answer 10

maybe you should try eharmony or something.

you should get off the computer & get a job, maybe take some classes at a community center, or go to the gym.  get involved and you'll meet girls.

lots of girls would like you because your like.. a stray.  they feel you need them, and people like to be needed.

Answer 11

Hey man, go out to a night club, bar, something like that. And maybe you will find someone.

Or try some dating websites..Hope I could help.

Best Wishes, good luck bro

Answer 12

I would try eharmony.  Since they do that compatibility thing on twenty-something different levels, I'd say they could do a great job of matching you up with someone perfect for you.

I wouldn't stress out over not having a driver's license.  I prefer to drive because I just don't relax when someone else is behind the wheel!

Answer 13

You will definitly get a good girlfreind because you know honesty is the best policy.

Answer 14

i like you too...but im 16 :S

Answer 15

Maybe its the type of girls you are meeting or that you are interested in. If you are interested in the type of girl that wants a guy with lots of money and with Brad Pitt looks then that's the kind of girl your going to meet.

Keep an open mind to what kind of women you meet. The woman your are meant to be with might not be who you are expecting.

Maybe try some online dating. Keep your head up. She is out there :)

Answer 16

Try your hardest to get ur drivers license and then meet up with a girl and BE YOURSELF!!!!!  Not everyone wants someone rich and looks like Brad Pitt!  You seem like a nice guy, so just be positive!!  There is a girl out there somewhere!!  Good Luck!!(By the way, I dont suggest you use dating services or anthing cuz I think they're like, really dumb!!)  Good Luck!  =D

Answer 17

You should think more of yourself - you were there for your Mom, which means you are kind, giving and love your Mom - a quality not often found.

Second, focus on getting a job and not a girl - you will know when you find the right woman - and when you are able to stand on your own two feet you will have more confidence in yourself.

Don;t start with such a "large List" of things that are negative about yourself - instead, make a list of your goals (realistic) and start going after each of them one at a time. As you start crossing those things off your list you will see you have always been a good person ... sometimes it takes time. Please be patient and have more faith in yourself.

My son is 27 and moved in with us again last year when things were going downhill for him professionally and personally - he has kept a job for a yer (same job); got his license and plans to join the Navy next month. Those are the goals he wrote down for himself and tackeled each one and didn't give up until he succeeded before moving on to the next step. You Can do It!

  

Answer 18

just be yourself the right girl will come around

Answer 19

The probability is that there are a lot of gals out there who feel like you: "What guy would possibly want me."

Your life is not a dead end.   You can take steps. Anytime.  Some men have gotten married at 40 or 50 or 60.

Get this book, do the exercises, and make some moves forward in your life:

http://www.amazon.com/Ten-Days-Self-Este...

Later, try e-harmony (or, the like)!

Answer 20

You are obviously a good man because you helped your mom out after your dad's passing.  What you need to do it get out more and meet some people.  Take a few college courses, join a club, or take up drawing in the park.  Do whatever it takes to meet people.  And focus on your good qualities.  So what if you don't have a driver's license .. tell everyone you are trying to save the Earth and you prefer non-polluting methods of transportation.  Don't be down on yourself because you aren't working .. find a job .. ANY job .. just get yourself into the work force again.  Don't make excuses!!  And don't be needy .. be mature, self-reliant and self-assured.  Just do it.