What happen when you have no hope?

Question

My sister says that she'll never get a a boyfriend because she chubby and ugly that is toally not true because she lost alot weight she was 190 and now she um 143 she lost 48lbs and she tall has short black hair and she has light brown eyes and I have no idea what to do because I'm the older sister and I'm should give the best advice I can but the worst part is that she 12 and she going to be 13 in Nov and all I 'm asking is please answer my question because I really need help pllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllz... help

Answer 1

Tell her she's too young to have a bf.

Answer 2

It worries me that she is 12 and is worrying about having a boyfriend.

Answer 3

you need to praise her, make her feel very special, and that love will come to her in it's time not hers.  friendships are good, bf at this time are not even necessary , tell her that what a blessing she is as she is...that the external is only skin deep, that whats important is whats on the inside...a good and faith full loving person,

tell God don't make no junk, and he made her, so she ain't no junk

also I would try to get her into a church youth group, to help change her focus to a bf to friendships and a personal relationship with Jesus.

which will do more for her than anything.....

Answer 4

Arw, this is so sad :(

Shes only young, she shouldnt be worrying about things like boyfriends, especially because they are nothing but trouble.

Let her know that theres someone out there for everyone, and it definately is the inside that counts.

You could take her mind of it by doing some girly things together, make overs, cinemas, etc.

Cheer her up, sounds like she needs it!

OH and one last thing, GOOD ON HER for losing the wieght.

The cake still tempts me im afraid :P