What happend? anyone know?

Question

ok ive been really good friends with her for years! like best friends we talked every day went out together..nothing happend....so she meets these new people they started going out to clubs and she just stopped talking to me..i textd her a few weeks ago and asked what she was doing..hourse later late at night she textd me back saying she was busy.....umm ok?? then on her myspace she deleted me yesterday and her status said out with the old in with the new.. i wrote her a msg n said i dont know what happend but i wish you the best in everything you do...and she replied and she said ya i think its best we end it....... i just left it alone after that...but this a friend that ive been thier for so many time listing to her giving her advice we have so many inside jokes and so many memorys we were best friends up intilla few weeks ago and i dont even know what i did..mind you weve been friends since 8th grade its not like you know we need space or wahtever she just wanted to "end it"...i dont get it

Answer 1

At times. friend will do that. give her sometime. see what happens.

Answer 2

Go to her house and ask if you could talk with her.  Ask her why she suddenly doesn't like you anymore, but whatever you do, DON'T criticize her new friends, or accuse them in any way shape or form!  Maybe bring up some of the good and funny things you two have been through.  Also, tell her about how much you miss hanging out with her and stuff, and ask if there's any particular reason she's avoiding you.  I'm really sad that you and your friend are having problems and all, and I hope things will be mended.  What I think has happened is that her friends or someone has pressured her into dropping you as a friend, convinced that it was for the best, you somehow made her mad, she's taking her anger out on you, or something else.  Who knows?  No one but her.  This is something you should talk out, and don't leave her alone or drop it, because then the thread that has tied you two together will be cut off from both ends!  Keep pestering her until she becomes your friend again, or until your satisfied!  If you back off or drop it, you'll lose her forever!  I think I started rambling again!  Oppsie... sorry about that, but I hope everything will turn out all right.  

Answer 3

Well its all apart of life, I'm thinking for one you must not club or do the same things as her new friends do.  I'm sorry to say people change. She even stated it on her myspace, which is odd as h**l and thats hella messed up that she deleted you. But you just got to move on you guys kind of broke up. Friends break up too. She might come back when she can't hang with the new crew no more, or become lost. People change when they hit a new age that opens up more opportunities for them like the age 21, it lets them drink n go clubbing differently now, even thou u could have been doing it for a while.

Just think, this day was gonna come because she was either gonna find herself a bf, and do the same.

Hope this help, cause I've been thru it and that stuff don't even fades me no more.

Answer 4

It hurts when someone you love doesn't want to see or speak with you anymore.  I'm sorry you have had to experience it.  Just try to move on and make some new friends.  Realize it's not you, it's her.  New friends and activities will help you get over it, time heals all wounds.  Blessed be.

~Pain is mandatory, suffering is optional.~