What happens when a much younger guy falls for a married?

Question

older woman? How can he get to her? She speaks to him as a friend and sounds somewhat unhappy in her marriage. She seems to be attracted to him but is still such a mystery. Does he go there or keep it his fantasy and why?

Answer 1

chaos!

Answer 2

Get away from her.  All you will do is s***w both of your lives up.

Answer 3

Keep it a fantasy, why BECAUSE SHE IS MARRIED!!

Answer 4

Firstly marriage is a promise between to people to love and respect each other. The "younger guy" sounds like an idiot and should get over it. there are plenty older SINGLE women out there. How would he feel if he was the cause of the break up and she blames him one day?

Answer 5

Well you can go just park in front of the house like that guy did a few years ago and let the husband blow your head off with a load of bird-shot.

Answer 6

An older woman who is unhappy in her relationship should be avoided at all costs!

She's bitter, she's unhappy and she is dangerous. If you get close to her, when things go south, you'll be the one she blames!!  

Answer 7

If you`re the younger guy, keep your fantasies where they belong, in your head. If she`s leading you on, she has no respect for herself or her husband, but since you have one thing in mind, hear this: are you sure you want to be sought out by her angered husband, looking over your shoulder? If this is what you want, don`t blame the black eyes on us here...

Answer 8

Keep it a fantasy.  All marriages have their rough patches and that might be what she is going through right now.  She probably needs someone she feels she can trust to talk to and an outsider can never really know what state a couples marriage is in.  Even if she is unhappy with her husband, this isn't an opening to start a romantic relationship with her - she will have a lot of thinking and self-examination to do and probably won't want another man just yet.

Also, if you were to win her away from her husband could you ever really trust her?  Would you always worry that when your relationship hits a rough patch if another man could win her away from you?  Not a good way to start out.

If it's meant to be she will leave her husband on her terms and come to you in her own time.  Don't force the issue and just keep it in your head...

Answer 9

There is nothing wrong with becoming her friend.  Offer to talk with her anytime she feels the need, offer to assist her with any of her household needs, this will endure you in her mind and thoughts.  You then can in a quite moment, tell her how attractive and sexual you think she is.  She will be flattered and proud that she still has sexual appeal to younger men, it will make her day.  And if your lucky she will share some of her sexual self with you.  Good luck.

Answer 10

Stay far far far far away.

She is married.  Unhappy or not, she is married!

Stick with the girls around you age that are single and happy...

Getting with someone who is unhappy is just adding more of s burden on yourself...

Find a nice, happy, single woman your age and you won't need to fantasize about Mrs. Robinson.

Best of Luck.

Answer 11

Older woman are enigmatic and passionate,  Maintain the terms and conditions of how and when you talk with her.   If you can, evaluate how vulnerable she is and respect it..  This is not fantasy, this is real life.        

Answer 12

Keep it a fantasy. She is married. What will happen when she leaves him for a relationship with you? You'll be questioning her like crazy, asking her if she is cheating.

Answer 13

keep it a fantasy. don't be a homewrecker. unless they divorce (ON THEIR OWN DOING, not because of you) leave it alone. she married him for a reason, she loves or at one time loved him. even if it 'seems' as though she's unhappy, the fact is, she's STILL with him.

Answer 14

My advise would be to keep  your d*ck to yourself. Nothing good can come out of this. (IMHO 9/10)

Of course go ahead if you're feeling lucky.

Eitherway i don't think i can answer the part of your question relating to courtship.

Answer 15

bang the bejesus out of her ...she probably needs it if she's unhappy in her marriage.

Answer 16

Put it this way, imagine you are married to her....what would you feel if another guy was asking this question about your wife.

Do not do anything. She is married and you must respect that. If she comes to you and tells you she is unhappy then talk/help her but do not do anything that breaks the oaths she took.

Answer 17

If the woman has any sense in her vows she'd keep her attraction (if any) to herself.

Does he go act on it? Unless he wants a beating from the husband, I'd suggest not.

Answer 18

There's no happy ending here... you're better off just walking away.  IF she does have marriage problems, they aren't YOUR problems.... and its possible that she just enjoys the flirting... like you make her feel s**y.  However, that is a FAR cry from wanting to be with you.  

Let it go........ enjoy your time with her... be a friend within reason... and find someone your own age to build some memories with....

Answer 19

Married = not available