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My nan lived with her son,his wife and their two children for thirty years. I always thought she was little more than an unpaid skivvy but she seemed happy enough with her life so we left it. She has 7 grandchildren and 11 great grandchildren . The other 5 grandchildren of which i am one always felt a little pushed out compared to the two she lived with but that was life. Any way in March her sons wife left taking one of the sons with her. He went even more mad than he already was and has been threatening alsorts since. He and the son that is left in the house are two freaks. They made it clear we were not welcome in their house so we have had to ring my nan when they were out and she has been ringing us when they were out. She has been given 4 mobile phones in total by us but they have taken them from her. About a month ago they phoned my mum to say nanny was sick mum and dad went down their and called an ambulance she was in hospital for nearly two weeks and said she was not going back their. We tried to liase with social services to get them to step in but after what was obvious coersion from her son and grandson she checked out of the hospital and went back their. The first we knew was when my mum phoned the hospital to check on her and was told she was gone.Seriously concerned for her we all phoned social services but were told nan was 83 and could choose for herself as an adult what she wanted to do.We tried to call her and go and see her but were always blocked by the son and grandson. We continued to try social services to no avail. 3 weeks ago my dad managed to get in and bring her to their house for an hour l saw her and she looked terrible if she weighed 4 stone it was a miracle my first thought was that she wouldn't live till christmas.My mum managed to get her to eat a ham sandwich that took her an hour to it. She couldn't wear her teeth because her mouth had shrunk so much. On monday just gone my mum got a phone call from a friend of my uncles in liverpool to tell her my nan was dead. My uncle couldn't tell us that she was rushed to hospital on the friday night where she lay alone and dying until the sunday morning when she died alone. We are devastated full of guilt and what if's. My question is what happens when someone has died through obvious neglect we all know what happens when a child dies through neglect but what about the elderly
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