What happens when you want nothing to do with your spouse but you have children? how do you handle that?

Question

Im seriously done with my Boyfriend of 3 years!, i've been nothing but faithful and loving to this man, yes i have my faults and i get bitchy at times but i cant even expalin how HONEST i've been to him. He's a liar, unfaithful and no matter how hard i try to get over what he did to me in the past i cant!

Im so over him! but its hard cause we have 2 babies ages1 and 3, so what do i do? we live together so how do i get out of this? I want them to still no their fahter but i could careless for staying in contact with him.

Answer 1

Grow Up. Get over your differences and just focus on communication for children issues when necessary. Be as civil and polite as you can. You don't have to be his friend.

You have to move out and start over. Set up a visitation schedule by going through the court system  to get child support established. A set schedule will minimize the communication needed. Be sure to still let your kids call and talk to him though.

Answer 2

first thing that you have to do is move out. Get to a safe location, and start a new life for yourself and your children. You deserve better than this, and so do your children. Unfortunately, unless he does not want to be a part of your lives, your stuck with him.

Answer 3

you are about the 101 person with the same question.....

do you guys see a pattern?

did he cheat the first year you guys were together?

how do you get out? you now have made a mess of

two children lives...

only thing is to THINK ...PLAN....and walk or run.

hopefully you have extended family that is willing to help.

Answer 4

You have no choice but to communicate when it comes to parents sharing children.  Move out, get a lawyer and work out visitation.