What have I done wrong here?

Question

I work with this bisexual girl who has a girlfriend. We've recently been away on quite a few business trips and have gotten closer as a result (she opened up to me).While away she said I'm exactly like her girlfriend,all good-without the bad bits!

In the office, she would snap at me at times and sometimes completely ignore me! Since we've returned from the trips,she's become very distant! She doesn't open upto me anymore either!

Her last day is this week.I've asked her if we will stay in touch and she didn't respond!

1.what have I done?

2.will we stay in touch?

3.when I started she was not like this and things were great!What's changed?

Answer 1

She either let you know to much about her and feels vulnerable.Or she

was on an ego trapping trip and you we're the prey.

Answer 2

shes just being a ***** - maybe she has crabs?

Answer 3

I think it is for the best that she doesnt want to stay in touch as she already has a partner and knowing that being in contact with you might end up in you two becoming closer again and becoming more than just friends.  Maybe she knows staying in touch will jeopardise her relationship with her girlfriend.

Answer 4

shes probably a bit freaked out cos the two of you got close and she doesnt like how it made her feel (cos she has a girlfriend). if i were you id keep my distance from her and let her come to you..whats wrong with doing that? shes the one ignoring you! on her last day just be civil to her and if she doesnt make the effort then ignore her and move on.  

Answer 5

You havent done anything.

She maybe thought she was developing a crush on you but in time realised its her gf she loves and doesnt want to hurt her.

DOnt keep in touch it wont do either of you any good as you seem to have a liking for her.! stay away