What/how and who do ugly people marry?

Question

I am in shape but most people wouldnt consider me cute/handsome. Some girls say I have a rough/coarse form of attractiveness but still not attractive in the usual sense. The thing is I dont want a trophy wife, or a girl who's attracted to me for money or what I can do for her, or worse yet a girl who settles.

I see a lot of ugly people married but I always feel that they either bought the affection or the girl settled and are not really loved for who they are.

Answer 1

It all goes to show that looks don't count for much.  I honestly doubt that the ugly people you refer to were either bought or settled.  Since their looks won't give them an easier ride through life, they count on what's in their heart more than your average barbie or ken doll-look-alike would.

I think you are right for not wanting a tropy wife, gold digger or someone who's desperate, because those things have a nasty habit of rearing up later in life and biting you in the bum.  Good luck, and dont worry you will meet the lady of your dreams soon.

Answer 2

Sometimes feelings outweigh looks...

   I would rather look ugly sometimes but I would never want to lose the feeling of that big O.

Answer 3

It's not your shape, or the color of your eyes or the size of your wallet, it's what's on the inside that counts. I know that sound cliche but it is so true.  

Answer 4

True love is about the beauty inside. I think that my husband is the hottest sexiest man in the world. That is because I love the person he is with all my heart. When you find that one person you will think she is the sexiest woman in the world and maybe she is settling but she isn't she loves you and to her you are the sexiest man alive.  

Answer 5

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but you have to be a little bit deeper then you are to understand that.  So when you say ugly are you talking about their insides?  Cuz that would be the only thing that baffles me.  

Answer 6

There is someone out there for all of us, whether we are ugly or attractive. One of my partners daughters is not very pretty, but guess what?, she is very beautiful  underneath and it shines through. So don't be in a hurry to find someone and take second best, as your turn will come and you will know as soon as you see her, that she is the one.

Answer 7

ya u r right people say beauty is not important it may fade after some days but in reality everyone wants beautifull people to marry....

but there r some people who r well mature will give importance to inner beauty ....

i personally like people who has gud sence of humor and gud style like the way he talks sits stands etc...so try to be stylish even if u r not beautiful  

Answer 8

You will find someone, I think the key is to have confidence. One of my friends (a male) isnt the cutest person ever but he makes me laugh so hard and is so sweet to me that if he lived in the same state, I'd totally be with him! But you cant act like you think your ugly, b/c not many girls like men with low self esteem-thats a turn off. good luck :)

Answer 9

Then you are so deceived people want someone who compliments them and some one they can share there life with. Someone who wants to be with them forever not someone that's just good looking (don't get me wrong, those are out there) but most want to be loved and want some one to love on so looks aren't the final result for many.

Answer 10

I think you lack of confidence in yourself... in courtship... in marriage...

Just be yourself and ignore other people's comments... You must be happy and satisfied for what GOD had given to you... A LIFE...A perfect one... Make full use of it...Just compare with those unfortunate ones.... You will know how to love yourself and proud of yourself. Not every girl settled down juz becoz of $$$ or without affection.. Perhaps you have not meet your right ones... Don't worry and be happy, be patience... You will find your right girl...Good LUCK!!!

Answer 11

Some marry for love.

Others marry for selfish reasons.

Money or looks should not matter.

One day your looks will fade

One day you may lose your job

One day you may lose your house.

Answer 12

My friends do not think that my husband is handsome, but I do. He is warm, generous, smart and attentive. And when he looks at me with his beautiful green eyes he melts my heart.

Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder! Where I see a beautiful, thoughtful, brilliant man, others may see a balding, goofy man.

Be the best person you can be inside and out and that is what will get you the girl. Make sure she is what you are looking for inside and out as well. Don't just settle.

Answer 13

They marry other "not-so-attractive" people. But beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Keep looking!