What hurts you more?

Question

Having to forget or remember?

Answer 1

What I have forgotten can't hurt me but what I remember definately can.  

Answer 2

having to remember

it seems that our most *bitterest memories* are the ones firmly implanted in our heads..

having to forget is really not a big deal because i think most people can forgive mindless forgettings here and there because we all suffer from that regardless..

example..i forget this person's birthday, i forgot a name, an appointment..etc..

if i can't remember it..then perhaps, it was never really that important to me in the first place..

hmmm...

Answer 3

of course having to remember!

Answer 4

umm..... both!!!

you can't decide! because having to remember horrible memory just makes you sad and miserable.

eg: childhood, abuse,....

having to forget things is also horrible because sometimes you might forget an important person or thing.. and destroy your whole life.

eg: forgot your only memory of your mom, forgot your girlfriend's birthday, forgot where you really belong.

but very good and interesting question!  

Answer 5

Remember.... there's a lot of c**p I wish I could forget but I can't, so it definitely hurts more that in one way or another I will always have a remembrance.

Answer 6

I'm a "carpe diem" kid, there's not one thing more in the entire world that scares me more than forgetting something, anything of importance. As the saying goes "much better better to have loved and lost" =]

just in case it's not noticeable i'm going with forgetting = worse

Answer 7

definitely having to remember...btw...it will hurt less as time goes by

Answer 8

HAVING TO FORGOT SOME GOOD THINGS I DESIDES TO DO.