What if Guy Friend Chooses Your Best friend over you?

Question

this might be a little complicated but i'll try to make it understandable:

I met this boy and girl on a vacation this summer, we're both 8th grade and the girl is 6th grade and we all hung out and became fast/good friends. At the end, we collected eachothers numbers and stayed in touch with texting. [we live in different states]

I have a crush on the boy, but the boy likes the other girl, not me.

He even asked her out but she said no, and she told me she didn't really want to be friends with him, so i was secretley glad and told the boy what she said because he wanted me to.

But that didn't end it there, although the boy then turned to me for a while and started talking to me it was great but then a few months later the girl called me and told me the boy and his family were going to go visit her springbreak of 2009!

She doesnt really even want to see the boy again, she'd rather have me come visit her...

but there she goes again, still responding to him, leading him on giving him hope that maybe he can win her heart again.

I am SO jealous and I feel left out that the boy would rather see her than me what should I do? I started let it go [missing them and stuff], until the girl called me just a few days ago with the news

Answer 1

Why not tell your friend you like him Maybe then she might back off And you can get closer

Answer 2

Baby Girl, first of all she has her head in the right place, she does not like him because  she is much to young as you also are to be getting so deep into one Boy. 6th and 8th grade, dang girl just in case you don't know it, you will be loving a lot more boys in years to come. Just wait until High School or College, the boys get much better looking and they have stuff to offer a young lady. Right now you all are trying out your affections to see just how love works. He likes her best because she is younger and most likely a virgin. you should also be a virgin, but your hormones are working much faster and you are most likely scaring him away, he knows you would most likely give it up if asked a few times, because you are chasing him, but she is a challenge and in a nut shell, that's the game, at 8th grade and Graduate school, if a girl is easy then most men leave for the last pickings because the chase is not that hard and they know they are going to get it anyway. But when you have other goals in mind and could care less about his or your hormones, then the boys will pursue you to no end. So be like your friend FOR YOUR SAKE, wait and focus on YOU and the FUTURE and watch the boys act like they can't get enough of you ...cause you will fresh and unknown and everyone likes that....BRAND NEW MEAT ..LOVE ...GIRL THAT HAS NEVER BEEN TOUCHED OR LOVED...YEAH I'M THE FIRST, ALL BOYS WANT TO BE THE FIRST. Baby girl, remember this always. " THE GAME REMAINS THE SAME, ITS THE PLAYERS THAT CHANGE" Don't worry, there will be many many more coming your way and its up to you how they look at you. are you easy or are you a challenge that has to be won at all cost. think of yourself as a prize. The golden prize that the Lord has made for the right MAN for you not the boys who come and go...so wait, hold on, pray on it...really, you are a queen and should only settle for the best in everything. Don't rush, that's the devil, he wants you to mess up so you will be full of guilt and shame for many years...don't play into it....Wait. I hope this helps you and trust me, I know it does nothing for your horny love moods, but it is food for your soul.

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from one girl to another

Georgia Queen

Answer 3

um, the girl did say she wanted you to come and visit her so you should. you should get to know the boy and if the boy gets to know you a little better maybe he will like you. don't give up.