What if anything, makes a transvestite attractive (to either men or women)?

Question

All us transvestites want to look good. But I get different views from people as to why they find transvestites attractive. We are just playing at being girls, although many of us take it seriously. This is my vdeo - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DxQNdgb-7gU

and although it only has a few pix I would like your view .

This video is a proper video file, so again, I am curious of your thoughts on this question.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YUs9H9sDUWo&NR=1

Answer 1

Hi...  You, like myself - a long time c/.d - t/v always want to look our best at all times.. If I may make the following suggestions in reference to your U Tube "clips"..

Cut back on the "motion"... G/G's don't flounce around that much.. I can fully understand your liking for what you do - I am the same way, but a more subtle presentation is far better.

Be more of yourself..  Walk in in HIGH HEELS, pose, stances etc, and exit.. By drawing so much attention to your actions, it's a dead giveaway...  Blend in  more and don't "

stand out in a crowd"..

Regards,

Rachelle In High Heels

Answer 2

very cute ! i luv your fashion sense & your sensuality - nice legs !!!

Answer 3

I'm sorry but to me you just look like a man in a dress and a long wig. I can always tell a transvestite beause of the way they walk or the clothes they wear. For some reason they all want to dress up like either a hooker or baby Jane.

Answer 4

Nothing at all

Answer 5

confidence and security in who you are.

Answer 6

Being open, honest and confident is a sure fire way to be attractive to either s*x, We are baring our soul to the world when we walk down the street dressed, I find lots of people appreciate that honesty, I look like a man in a frock but still get very few negative responses.

Its just me being me and I am happy this way.

Answer 7

What do you mean "If anything" ?

Something sure as h**l makes us attractive to them, my inbox and my the number of messages I get on MSN stand testament to that fact.

I take is "seriously" myself, but I don't get all militant and into great discussions about transphobia at pride or wether hormones should be available to teenagers... I enjoy what I do, and I feel comfortable doing it. I think that confidence is the key, guy's and girls who are likley to fancy a bit of fun with us are more likely to look for a confident girl, who's happy and assertive and if need be can take the lead knowing exactly what she wants.

I have discussed this kind of thing at length with a few admirers, and they all said the same thing in general terms, they talk to me because i am happy, not hiding anything and not a seedy backroom tranny in his wifes lingerie while she's at Gala with her mates playing Bingo.

The other thing was, they liked that I had obviously made an effort to look my best 'for them' (sic) and  that meant a lot to them, knowing i was happy to put in that effort.

Lastly, willingness to please. Being happy to make them happy.

So... Confidence first, then effort then willingness. (and a good shave first lol)