What if he came back?

Question

What would you do if you were pregnant by your teen love and he ended up bailing on you. Then say 5 or even 10 years later, you're still a single mom, but he comes back with a good career, stable life and own house, home, etc, and wanted you to be with him again so that he can take care of his child and you.

Would you take him back? What would you do?

Answer 1

i would test him various ways and accept 1 my child needs a father and deserves one and 2 it depends if my life is not stable  

Answer 2

IT REALLY DEPENDS ON THE REASON WHY HE LEFT. IF HE LEFT BECAUSE OF ANOTHER GIRL?  DID HE CHEAT ON YOU? HE DIDN'T WANT THE CHILD? WAS HE SCARED?

I THINK EVERYONE  DESERVES A SECOND CHANCE, BUT YOU REALLY NEED TO DECIDE IF THE REASON HE LEFT IS UNDERSTANDING AND IF HE DESERVES THAT SECOND CHANCE SO HE DOESN'T BAIL ON YOU FOR THE SAME REASON. AS LONG AS HE PROVES THAT HE LOVES YOU AND REALLY WANTS TO BE WITH YOU AND THE CHILD I SAY GO FOR IT.

Answer 3

Hey it sounds like he grew up! Give him credit for wanting to take responsibility for his past actions. If you like him you should give it a chance.  

Answer 4

No as he proved that when the going gets tough he gets going.

No staying power Not there to fall back on when it really gets hard and you need him the most. Why on earth would you take him back?

Answer 5

He ran out on you once. Yet perhaps at that time he was not ready or able to support a wife and child and mow he is. A marriage is between a husband and a wife, so don't take him just for the sake of the child, but take him if you love him and are convinced that you are loved in return.

Answer 6

I would have to Pray about that...real Hard!!

Answer 7

Take him back,probably not.But for darn sure make him do right by his child.