What if he doesnt ask for a second date?

Question

I went on a date with this great guy tonight and he seemed pretty into me. He was talking a lot he brought us wine and we saw a play! then we sat down for coffee and talked for a good two hours. There were never any awkward moments and we were both really into the conversation. At the end of the night he walked me to my car and gave me a long hug goodbye and off I went. He never mentioned anything about seeing each other again though and that got me a little confused? He has my phone number and everything. Do you think he will call to ask for a second date or is he simply not interested?

Answer 1

Instead of worrying about whether he will ask again or not, why not take the leading role and do something to "make yourself available" to him.

Do you have a way to contact him?

Can you send him a txt message or email?

Maybe he is waiting for you to make contact?

Is there something you can do to prompt him to remind him that

you care and that you want to hear from him again?

Maybe he needs that?

Answer 2

its a 50/50 chance.

Answer 3

If he doesn't, at least you had one lovely evening.  Give him some time to realize how much he likes you.

Answer 4

I'd be confused too.  Sounds like a good date.  Its early days yet, but if you don't hear from him at least a couple of days before the weekend, that's usually a sign he's not too interested in regular dates.

For him not to ask if you'd like to get together again, or even say anything in reference to seeing each other other again, doesn't sound positive.  But then again he may have felt that he didn't need to say anything.  

I hope you hear from him.

Answer 5

That sounds like a pretty good date.  How long ago was this?  I think he'll call depending how long ago it was.

Answer 6

I've been there. Don't think too much about it. I know it's easy to get carried away by this great date. If you had so much fun, then a second date will be a given right? Not all the time. Guys can be pretty confusing sometimes. If he's really into you, then he'll call you. If not, then too bad, move on. The important thing is to not wait for it. Go on with everything else that you're doing, go out with other guys if possible. Keep your options open. Live life, and be happy. Make yourself think you have the possibility to choose any guy that you want. This way, you won't be too hung up on this one guy. It hurts as h**l when you're too into a guy too soon and he just doesn't follow through. Only believe a guy likes you IF AND ONLY IF he tells you himself.  

Answer 7

Call him! Communicate the great time you two had and be prepared and ready for asking him on a second date.

Don't wait him out; take charge of your life. You are dating, not committed to the first man that you had a great date with. If he is not interested, oh well, off to the next great, maybe fantastic date!

He probably does not know how to have a conversation on the phone and is waiting for you to call him to get things going.