What if im terribly in love with a wrong guy?

Question

What if im terribly in love with a wrong guy?

Answer 1

First it would depend on why he is the wrong guy-if he's married does he feel the same? if he's married w/ kids don't push it-let him come to you....if he's your professor-big no no-your life/career (support for the rest of your life) is more important than your love life.....if he's g*y-there's always a chance if he feels somewhat the same-it happens, believe me....

Answer 2

Ask yourself what makes him "wrong" and if the good outwieghs the bad, then he can't be all that "wrong" afterall.  However, if he is really the "wrong" guy, then you are not in love with him, you are in lust with the "bad boy" image you get.  Face it, people want what they can't have, or don't need.  Your call dear.

Answer 3

Imagine yourself 5 or 10 years from now.   Do you see this guy in the picture?   Or look at it this way, imagine a family about 5 or 10 years from now.   Do you see him as the father of your children?

If he's not in the picture, you know he is not the one for you.   If he is in the picture, he's not as "wrong" as you think he is.    Trust your gut feeling.    

What about him makes him wrong?    Better yet, how does he feel about you - does he see you in his life 5 or 10 years from now?    

Think about the long term - kids.    Do they deserve to have the "wrong" father?

Answer 4

You already know he's the wrong guy.  Why wait to be hurt.  Cut your losses and move on.

Answer 5

Do some soul searching...are you sure this is the right guy for you...or are you settling for him just because he is available or whatever.  Think about what the ideal guy is for you, and then go for that guy.  Don't settle for second best. : )

Hope this helps

Answer 6

i dn't thnk there is right n wrong wen ur in luv..all u see abt d person is good because wen u love..u learn to accept his/her even his mistakes and imperfections.don't think about wat if'

s..enjoy dt wonderful feeling...i do..8s better 2 try dn end up regretting nt trying..:)

Answer 7

Hi! You must order your feelings. Who you are and what do you want from a guy? You have to answer yourself and see the truth.

But, You really can't denied love, love is powerful and if it doesn't work, don't feel frustrated just walk your path ans find the perfect guy for you.

I hope you luck to find the perfect man for you. Think twice if possible before make a choice.

Answer 8

Be cautious. Or leave him.

Answer 9

Just cut off the relationship with him as that will lead to a great trouble in future and as it is the question of your life. so it is better to just forget that person and start with new life with new views and just try to forget him.

i personally feel that it wont be so easy to forget him but you have to accept it and have to try to forget him from your mind and specially from your heart. because by crying or doing anything wont solve any problem and it wont make any difference in the life of that guy.

Answer 10

you'll make your mistake and learn your lesson the hard way just like I did. Good luck