I've always been fond of my Uncle, and looked up to him as my fatherly figure (My real father really wasn't a "hands on" father, my Uncle is). Now, I just moved in with him and his family about a week ago, and today alone I've found out about him either "sweeping something under the rug", or straight out lying to me, and many of his other family members as well.
I can see his reasons for lying, or not letting others in on what this is all about, but he and I usually talk about everything, and he usually trusts me with this type of thing. Now don't get me wrong, he's not a bad guy at all, that's why its extremely out of character for him.
Aside from that, he even told me that I would be just like his children, and that he would treat me no differently than them, but his children (My cousins) knew about this, and yet I lacked knowledge until one of my cousins has notified me about this early this afternoon..
What should I think? Its some what of a major thing he didn't let me know about, and I personally heard him tell his daughter not to mention it to me. (She was on the phone next to me, and I could hear what he was telling her) It hurts to know that he doesn't want me to know this, you know?
It's almost as if he can't trust me with something, and I feel somewhat betrayed by him for lying to me a few times in the past 2 days, according to what my cousin said. (And I can actually trust this cousin). Should my relationship with him change?
Your thoughts/input/ideas?
Please/Thank You.
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