What if this girl is trying to steal my boyfriend away from me?

Question

Hi. I'm haley and I have a wonderful boyfriend. We have been together about 7 months and we are perfect for each other. Everything has been going great until morganne came along. She has been texting my boyfriend and saying "Nasty" stuff to him that I do not like at all. She says she wants a guy who will like her for her and listen to her, and i guess she means my boyfriend, but i don't think so. I have asked her nicely to stop once and she did for a while and had a new boyfriend, but they recently broke up and now she is doing it again. It is making me so mad and I need help. My boyfriend doesn't like her and tells me that she gets on his nerves some, but I am the one who really suffers, because i am not gonna like fight her or anything. I dont do stuff like that. Please help me!

Answer 1

if you bf doesn't like her and thinks she is annoying he needs to tell this girl to leave him alone and not make it anything to do with you.

Answer 2

Awwww...you sound sweet. : )

Well if she gets on your boyfriend's nerves, then why isn't he telling her to get lost?

I think he needs to handle this because after all he is the one whom she is going after.

If he really loves you, he will drop her as soon as possible in order to keep you happy.

I really don't know what to say about this one.

Good luck!

xoxoxoxoxo

Answer 3

I would have him tell her to her face IN FRONT of you to STOP txting, calling and speaking to him in all ways because it is disrepecting his relationship to the girl he loves -( hugging you ), and tell her that she needs to find someone else because he is committed and in love.  END of discussion.  Get it, Got it, GOOD!??!

Answer 4

he's your boyfrien but thiis is not job. why don't he stop her himself.cause he doesn't like her.

Answer 5

well if he didnt like her texing him why doesnt he change his number?

Answer 6

She's not gonna steal him away from you unless he wasn't yours to begin with. Advise him to not answer her texts, and eventually she'll give up and move on. Sounds like he doesn't like her, so why are you so worried? Just give him a big hug and remind him how great he is!

Answer 7

No one can break up a relationship unless you are on shakey ground. It doesn't sound like that to me, don't worry. Tell your friend in a stern matter to leave your boy friend alone and move on. And your boy friend should do the same.

Answer 8

If you are young enough let him go... be aloof and free. If he want to go with someone else, then that will be his choice. Don't let him or Morganne keep you in knots... If he doesn't change his ways, find another boyfriend... Who know's a new love is probibly what you need now that you know what to look for in a boyfriend.  

Answer 9

i think if you get your boyfriend to tell her to stop texting her and etc. that would work out more because it's him that she is interested in and wants to ruin your relationship , if you tell her to stop texting to your boyfriend she wouldn't care cas she was planning to ruin you guys anyways, to her the angrier you get the better (just so yo guys will break up) but your bf seems really honest and loyal to you ..so i think he should tell  Morganne to stop and that it gets on his nerves.

:) that's just my advice i

Answer 10

If your boyfriend is trustworthy (and he sounds like he is) then it shouldn't be much of a problem. If both of you tell her to stop and she doesn't then you have a reason to get angry but talking to her may stop her from hitting on your boyfriend. Try to get him to explain to her that he only has feelings for you. Good luck :D

Answer 11

I think the best thing to do would be to ask him to delete or block her number. Possibly chance his phone number. Not that you dont trust him just that you dont trust her. Guys are naturally going to be turned on by some "nasty" talk ya know? It's not that he wants to, even as much as he may love you. And if worse gets to worse, confront the girl. I wouldn't suggest that, because it could get trashy.

Answer 12

Het haley, well first tell your boyfriend to stay away from her in the non-jerkish way. Then talk to morganne and ask her why are u texting my bf and talking to him, but of course in a polite common manner.  Then carry  on from there.  Good luck haley